faithfully Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Met this guy online about a week ago, seems really nice and after few days gave him my number. We been texting/chatting on the phone since. Set up a date friday gone, went to a really nice coocktail bar, he paid must have spent at least £120 on 1st date, last drink i offered to pay and he agreed. That night he asked if he could kiss me and i declined stating i never kiss on 1st date and he said he respected me for that. We got on really well, we been texting whilst i was in my taxi home alone thanking him for a good night. Woke up and we been texting on whatsapp back and forth, even asking him if i would see him again, i said yes........ Then all of a sudden just stopped replying. I msg him saying hey then nothing, 3hrs later msg are you not talking then nothing, he seen the msg n seen that he was online but ignored my msg. Bern well over 17hrs now and still no reply. Did i put him off??
Assasda Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 unless you said something off putting, dont see how you could put him off. just leave him be for a while, maybe something is wrong. bottom line is, the ba;; is in his court
Author faithfully Posted May 18, 2014 Author Posted May 18, 2014 Noooo didnt say anything off putting!! He even asked if i would see him again and i said yes so just strange how he is ignoring me. Didnt even.kiss him
contact1 Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Maybe he has a life outside of texting you back? Let it be, like the other poster said, it is on him to text you back and a text doesn't have to always be replied to right away, people have other things to do in their lives, not just look at their phone. If you keep texting him you will end up looking like the crazy stalker gf that needs to know where he is every single minute of the day or else you'll go on a rampage.
halfcrazed_i Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 If you put him off because of the kiss thing... Then good riddance. Otherwise, it could've been something that you guys were talking about. Or that he could've been genuinely busy (he does deserve the benefit of the doubt). Forget about texting him for now. Let him come to you next time.
Author faithfully Posted May 18, 2014 Author Posted May 18, 2014 Yeahh i understand people might be busy and have a life. I havent texted him at all since 7am sat and i deleted his number after knowing he got my msg and was online on whatsapp. I am not mad or pissed off coz i dont know him that well, just suprised as he asked if i would see him again to which i replied yes then nothing. Oh well nevermind, just shocked as he spent soo much on this date, picked me up, and messaged me after asking to meet again. Plenty more guys out there
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