How do you feel men about women giving suggestions you in dating/relationships?

[Anela]

There are people of both genders, whose advice I would take - people I trust (here and offline), and those that Radu mentioned, who are neutral, and give good advice.

[Woggle]

The best relationship advice I ever got was from a lesbian. She has a true friend during my divorce.

[joystickd]

The best relationship advice I ever got was from a lesbian. She has a true friend during my divorce.

I will agree lesbians offer good advice. Probably because on some level they think like a man.

[joystickd]

I do think sometimes women forget that most women want a man to act like a man. Advising a man to act like a woman to get a woman is probably not going to work.

 

True, there are some women who want their man to act like a woman....but most probably do not.

 

One thing I have learned is that I need to be wary of people who advise me based on the way I trigger their unresolved junk instead of based on what I am actually asking.

We all have unresolved junk lol

[Smilecharmer]

Possibly you may be right but I will say the women on here have a habit of over dramatizing things up here men say.

 

 

I think the whole over dramatization thing is rich...I over dramatized things on this thread because you made your opinions and preferences in such a over dramatic way, I figured it was the only way you would be able to understand. Honestly, if you don't want advice from women, don't take it and ignore all the women on this thread who don't tell you what you want to hear. Why is this even a issue for you? I know on LS and IRL who gives good partial and thoughtful advice and I stick to reading their replies. Maybe you could try that. Find the men here who are married or have LTR who gives good advice and follow it, or if getting sex is your only prerequisite, get advice from the guys here that are studs. You should be able to get the advice you want by people you respect...men. I think it is acceptable in the first posting to write...only men reply please. I see this occasionally and I don't answer the thread. No need to get so upset over it...many of us are happy just to be of help to people but I understand if you don't think some people are helpful to you if you have bad experiences. It is hard to know what motivates some people to answer...some women may think they want men who act like women so they try to think of how a woman would do certain things, and others may be bitter and using their own projections to hurt all men...we will just never know the true motivations.

[Priv]

Ummmm... never really asked dating advice, but I would imagine asking a woman dating advice you will probably get an answer about how she would like to be courted. Ask a guy and he naturally (hopefully reading some of the posts on LS ) has a wider scope of women = experiences to draw from instead of just the one.