Princessjesabell Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 So I have been dating the same guy for about 4 years, exactly one year ago we got a place together. With in that year we have had good times and bad and when those times were bad, oh lord were they ever! My main problem at this point is that i feel I do much so much more for him than he does for me. Granted he paid the deposit for our home and bought all new furniture and pays the rent with exception of the last two months I have paid. He is a carpenter and when the weather is bad he cannot work. The weather has been horrible all winter! Which has affected our income tremendously. So months after living in our home he decided to purchase a brand new car this car was put into his mothers name. He had it for about five months and never made a payment. Needless to say the car was repossessed and the only way to get it out is to pay the amount in full ($42,000) So there is no hope in that. We have been filling out car loans like crazy and have been denied neither ouf our credit is good. I have one source that I know I would be able to get a loan from and this loan I could only get if he were to pay off the exsisting loan that I have which he is willing to do but I really dont want his bad burden on me. Meaning the loan would be in my name and when he purchased a car it would have to be in my name as well. How do I tell him I dont want to do this
tattoomytoe Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 tell him you cannot put your credit in jepordy like that. sure he has paid in the past, but he has also not paid and got his car repo-ed..... i mean Hellooo..that is the reason he cannot get his own loan, right?
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