SG19765 Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 Got really drunk last night. Acted like a complete idiot. It got to the point where my girl stormed out of my house to me what to go do with myself and left. I'm not even really to sure how to proceed. I acted like a complete piece of white trash which really isn't me. Just don't have a good feeling about whats coming, maybe its just me being nervous. Just never wanted something to work so bad in my life and I feel like if I screw it up that I'm an idiot. I have a track record for being a little foolishly proud, but for the first time ever I actually find myself caring. Any pointers here guys on how to proceed when me and her talk again?
2.50 a gallon Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 Flowers! Candy! Have worked wonders getting us out of the dog house for generations. You also might go looking for a card that says "I was and Idiot" One thing you might look into is the pride thing. I too used to suffer from it. We humans seem to feel we have the right or need to be right, no matter how wrong we are. 1
Author SG19765 Posted May 17, 2014 Author Posted May 17, 2014 Already sent flowers. We will see were it goes. Just thought I was really cool and cocky and a hotshot last night. Just sloppy drunk. I really do feel like a complete jerk.
beach Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Already sent flowers. We will see were it goes. Just thought I was really cool and cocky and a hotshot last night. Just sloppy drunk. I really do feel like a complete jerk. Feel bad enough to not ever drink again? If your an idiot when you drink - don't you think not drinking could solve the problem? If your answer is no - the flowers aren't really an apology but merely the cover up for bad behavior. An apology should always be accompanied by new behavior, otherwise the apology becomes worthless. 3
Frank2thepoint Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 I have a track record for being a little foolishly proud, but for the first time ever I actually find myself caring. Any pointers here guys on how to proceed when me and her talk again? Alcohol, better known as liquid courage. I will admit I have gotten a lot more boisterous and even more effusive with alcohol. Before you talk with her, you need to make a conscious decision that you will exert self-control and discipline to not drink as much as before, so Mr. Hyde does not appear. Once you've made this promise to yourself, then talk your girlfriend. Be sincere, don't make any excuses, and genuinely promise it will never happen again. 1
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