Sagittarius Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 So its been 2 years since I graduated High School (I was Valedictorian too :]) so it has been REALLY hard to meet girls since I don't see 1000+ everyday. Now I'm totally into this chick, (same girl, Kasei, if you read my other thread I posted about a week ago) shes just so great, and I'm crazy about her, I daydream about her all the time, she flirts and hits on me a lot, but she is a major tease lol. She often talks about laying in bed with me and a lot of sexual things to me, but only has come to cuddle with me once. Anyway what do I do when a girl I'm nuts/crazy for rejects me? :/ Thank you and have a lovely day. -Ryan
Assasda Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Hahahaha. you did a total 180 with the post. I had no Idea you were going to ask that. First of all, I dont think this girl has rejected you - From what you just posted. Secondly, if you get rejected, and I dont know why you would; all you do is move on. Is there some other part of the story, that youre not telling?
halfcrazed_i Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 I think before you think about getting rejected, you should totally put yourself out there first. And let her know you like her. If you get rejected, then come back and we can help put you back together Good luck! I hope it works out well for both of you.
Tressugar Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 You haven't got rejected yet! Wait until you get rejected before asking what should you do.
Dallers Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Fear of rejection is worse than rejection itself. I am normally met with joy, elation and relief after I get rejected by most girls because 24-48 hours later I realise I was not that into her at all it was just my mind telling me that I was. Too many people waste their life chasing after the person they think is the one, when actually they are the wrong one. Go in head held high without fear of rejection pop the question and then get on with your life with her or without. 1
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Fear of rejection is worse than rejection itself. I am normally met with joy, elation and relief after I get rejected by most girls because 24-48 hours later I realise I was not that into her at all it was just my mind telling me that I was. Too many people waste their life chasing after the person they think is the one, when actually they are the wrong one. Go in head held high without fear of rejection pop the question and then get on with your life with her or without. I couldn't agree more. Reject rejection I say! All it is is a minor set back. If you let it consume you it'll destroy you!
Author Sagittarius Posted May 18, 2014 Author Posted May 18, 2014 I think before you think about getting rejected, you should totally put yourself out there first. And let her know you like her. If you get rejected, then come back and we can help put you back together Good luck! I hope it works out well for both of you. She rejected me today she said she only flirted with me out of boredom and was just ****ing around :/ i feel so insulted:( 1
Assasda Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 She rejected me today she said she only flirted with me out of boredom and was just ****ing around :/ i feel so insulted:( Whats the story, What happened?? Let us know
Potz4prez Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Sagittarius: Just look at it this way. At least now you got all your infatuations out of the way. You probably liked that she was paying attention to you more than you actually liked her. Taking that in mind, go out and ask other girls out now. You'll be surprised how much better you do when you're no longer desperate for a girls attention (they can smell it). Remember, it was her being immature and you did nothing wrong. Just be more assertive next time. Get to know girls over dates, not by trying to be their flirty friend.
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