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My girlfriend has started to ask me the most annoying question. She'll point out a guy either in media or when we are out and ask me:

 

If you were a girl would you bang that guy?

 

I mean wtf, I can't answer that because I'm not a girl and not into guys at all.

 

Sometimes she has a slight smile or smirk on her face do I think she might just be trying to rile me up. But it's annoying. She's my first girlfriend and we haven't been dating long.

 

How do you guys deal with annoying partner behaviour and what do you think I should do?

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Maybe she wants to have a MMF threesome. Would you be down with that?

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It doesn't make you a homosexual to put yourself in a woman's shoes for a minute for joking purposes. Don't play unless she's willing to say what women she would bang if she a guy though.

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Maybe she wants to have a MMF threesome. Would you be down with that?

 

No :( that's disgusting.

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It doesn't make you a homosexual to put yourself in a woman's shoes for a minute for joking purposes. Don't play unless she's willing to say what women she would bang if she a guy though.

 

Actually that's a great idea. I'm going to ask her next time she asks. :) Thanks man.

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When you see a goodlooking girl ask her if she was a guy would she bang her. Calling her attention to a bunch of goodlooking girls will make her stop. I can almost guarantee it!;)

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When you see a goodlooking girl ask her if she was a guy would she bang her. Calling her attention to a bunch of goodlooking girls will make her stop. I can almost guarantee it!;)

 

Or she'll do it more often...

 

Usually someone acting like your GF for one of two reasons:

 

1.) They're trying to tease you (playfully) or make you a little jealous as your jealousy makes them feel more desired.

 

2.) They want to you two to be open with each other and be able to playfully talk about other people's level of attractiveness because they think that's healthy. Lots of couples who have been with each other for a while might be honest that they find other people attractive but, by talking about it, it reaffirms that they have no plans to act on it. I seem to recall a few interviews in which Will and Jada Smith have mentioned that they tell each other when they think that someone else is sexy and try to laugh about it.

 

In either case, try doing the same thing to her. Either she'll get jealous (in which case it's #1) or she'll be open and tell you what women she thinks are attractive which may well diffuse the whole thing (which is #2).

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My girlfriend has started to ask me the most annoying question. She'll point out a guy either in media or when we are out and ask me:

 

If you were a girl would you bang that guy?

 

I mean wtf, I can't answer that because I'm not a girl and not into guys at all.

 

Sometimes she has a slight smile or smirk on her face do I think she might just be trying to rile me up. But it's annoying. She's my first girlfriend and we haven't been dating long.

 

How do you guys deal with annoying partner behaviour and what do you think I should do?

 

Hahahaha, youre GF sounds pretty funny.

Why do you let this bother you.

Just say something, like "If I was a girl, I'd be lesbian" or something like that, or Just answer yes, to every guy that she mentions, and say "If I was a girl, I'd be a slut"

Basically, play along with her

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Hahahaha, youre GF sounds pretty funny.

Why do you let this bother you.

Just say something, like "If I was a girl, I'd be lesbian" or something like that, or Just answer yes, to every guy that she mentions, and say "If I was a girl, I'd be a slut"

Basically, play along with her

 

LOL. That's hilarious. Thanks ... I will do that :)

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