stillafool Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 OP's behavior is disgusting and will not attract a quality mate, now or in the future. :sick: A woman opening her legs to multiple men is quite possibly one of most unattractive things she can do. Most men are not the "sensitive" types that appear on this forum. They will be inclined to agree with me. Really? How do you feel about a man who will drop his pants for anything that moves?
ASG Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 If you need to ask others if it's wrong or keep it on the down low it suggests that you're not as comfortable with your choice as you're trying to make it appear. Well you pretty much said that the only reason you've resorted to promiscuity is because of being treated badly, looked ever and not finding Mr.Right...so yours is a reactionary kind of thing where you're not getting what you really want so said "F***k it!" essentially and have opted for this instead...which explains why you even care if it's wrong, as it's not something you genuinely would prefer to be doing. Some people are happily promiscuous and right where they want to be (I have two friends who are genuinely this way and are very happy and also feel no need to hide)...it doesn't seem like this is the case for you though. I completely agree with this post. Having casual sex is fine! Personally, I think it's actually amazing! And I've said it on this forum time and again. But I don't hide it. Sure, I don't advertise how many people I've slept with, that's no one's business, but I don't pretend to be a virgin either. When the topic of sex comes up, people will know that I've indulged, by what I say, even if I give no specific details. So make sure that YOU are ok with it. It doesn't matter what other people think. And about the STDs... I've been very very careless in the past. VERY. Only had one issue that was easily treated. Nowadays I am never careless and have not had any problems at all. Despite what people on this board make it sound like, you will not get an STD just because you decide to have casual sex. Specially if you are safe.
topaMAXX Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 Really? How do you feel about a man who will drop his pants for anything that moves? I disagree with that too. Men should be more selective in choosing even sexual partners. I'm EXTREMELY picky with even the girls that I sleep with. I think that all men should be.
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