snappytomcat Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 just wondering if we are still in the hysterical bonding stage or if our sex life is just going to be amazing like it has been for the last year especially. usually it 2 times a day 6 days a week,im not complaing and neither is hubby.i just hope we can continue like this,plus ive even lost some weight and I know it cause of the sexercise weve been having 9
KaliLove Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 I can't speak from experience because I wouldn't touch my ex with a ten foot pole after our incident, but I think it's probably different for everyone. I wouldn't worry too much about it..just enjoy it! Maybe it'll last forever. 2
compulsivedancer Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 Enjoy, just don't expect it to last forever. I think ours was in the 10 or 11 month range. 2
Author snappytomcat Posted May 16, 2014 Author Posted May 16, 2014 I can't speak from experience because I wouldn't touch my ex with a ten foot pole after our incident, but I think it's probably different for everyone. I wouldn't worry too much about it..just enjoy it! Maybe it'll last forever. right after dday,i was so disgusted with myself I thought there was something wrong with me,cause I just wanted sex,not just any sex I wanted angry,erotic sex I was so happy when I learned its normal lol I thought put me in a straight jacket and commit me,how could I want to touch that with a 1000 ft pole 1
KaliLove Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 right after dday,i was so disgusted with myself I thought there was something wrong with me,cause I just wanted sex,not just any sex I wanted angry,erotic sex I was so happy when I learned its normal lol I thought put me in a straight jacket and commit me,how could I want to touch that with a 1000 ft pole Ha..my situation was different. Plus my ex is a huge, gaping, infected a-hole for many reasons (the cheating was only one of his many, many, enormous flaws) and I'm sure yours is not. 1
Author snappytomcat Posted May 16, 2014 Author Posted May 16, 2014 Ha..my situation was different. Plus my ex is a huge, gaping, infected a-hole for many reasons (the cheating was only one of his many, many, enormous flaws) and I'm sure yours is not. you will find someone way better than your ex,in every way,and that's the best revenge 1
ladydesigner Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 I have to say we are still somewhat experiencing it. I am 2 years post Dday. While it has slowed down greatly our sex life is still wonderful! 4
KaliLove Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 you will find someone way better than your ex,in every way,and that's the best revenge Aww, thanks Snappy. My last boyfriend was no great shakes either (I seem to be a magnet for men with mental illnesses/personality disorders) but hopefully my taste in men will improve with the next one. Even if he looks like Tyrion Lannister next to me... You just enjoy your husband! 2
ChooseTruth Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 just wondering if we are still in the hysterical bonding stage or if our sex life is just going to be amazing like it has been for the last year especially. usually it 2 times a day 6 days a week,im not complaing and neither is hubby.i just hope we can continue like this,plus ive even lost some weight and I know it cause of the sexercise weve been having Yup, totally depends. I'm jealous...kinda...I think I would need more recharge time than you are giving hubby! 3
harrybrown Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 even if it is HB, try and see if you can keep it going after the HB is over. Great exercise. good for moods as well. 2
gettingstronger Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 16 months with no end in site. Crazy stuff but no complaints here! 3
ladydesigner Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 (edited) My fWH still to this day says our sex post A was some of the hottest sex we've ever had. It was more than sex. A primal need to connect and we did. Hysterical Bonding was an extremely spiritual experience for me. My fWH would agree. Edited May 16, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 5
waterwoman Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 The frequency has reduced after 2 years but the intensity and emotional connection is still amazing. After Dday I couldn't bear for him to touch me or see me naked. After 2 days he wept and begged me to let him hold me. We had sex and it was the most emotional sexual experience we had shared for a long time. Souls bared, no secrets, no artifice, almost painfully honest. There was no-one else he was thinking of at that time. 4
road Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 HB usually lasts for 6 months. Some couples never have HB and some have mentioned that HB lasts for a year or two. If any have gone past two years they I have never heard because they just stop posting.
DasPope Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 I actually don't think our sex life has changed at all ... Its always been pretty frequent and passionate. Nothing really changed. 1
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