Stillits Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 Hmm.. Now I really wish there was someone here to kiss The first time kissing you have to be conservative since you don't know the style of the other person. You can't go wrong with soft, playful kisses. On the lips, be slow, gentle, and deliberate. You want to feel how your lips fit together, how they resist as you pull away. She's your drug, let her tickle your nerves. It's an entire production, really. Clear the hair back beside her face. It's a crescendo like in music. Run your fingers like feathers down her neck. Move her head to the side. She's happy to surrender. Kiss behind the earlobe, or right where the neck meets the shoulder. As she overwhelms your senses you become stronger. You firmly grasp the hair behind her neck. Your rational mind is clouded. You nibble at her lip. You pull her closer to feel every inch of her pressed against you. She turns you into an animal which makes her feel beautiful and irresistible. So yeah, it's not "just" about the kiss. 3
angel.eyes Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 IMO, kissing is largely about chemistry. Perfect technique, if there is even such a thing, can't overcome lack of chemistry in the way a kiss gets experienced. Kissing comes naturally to most people. My very first kiss, I was told I was an amazing kisser. Don't sweat the small stuff. Just go with the flow and savor the moment. So this is a question geared more towards the ladies (since I'm a guy). I've heard quite a few women refer to some guys as really good kissers, and it being one of the reasons why they like them. But I've always been curious...what exactly makes a guy a good kisser? Is it a particular technique they use? The way they work their lips? Is it some other thing like how they hold you when they kiss you? Or a timing thing? 1
SadNLonley Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 IMO, kissing is largely about chemistry. I agree. Funny thing though... A guy I dated but not in love with and could not have a serious relationship with was an amazing kisser. We had a physical connection that literally would shoot electricity straight down the center of my body while we were kissing. Never felt it with anyone but him. Amazing enough he was a total jerk. But boy could that man kiss! (gotta get in the cold shower now thinking about it. lol) 1
Charlie Harper Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 I have been told I am a great Kisser, and also I have been too I kiss like a woman.... I agree there is something natural to it, and can't be taught, also some people will never feel confortable or get into rhythm ... bummer because a good kiss is a sure sign about chemistry and passion to come...
ASG Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 Hmmm... good kissers... I have to say, for me, a good kisser needs to have a soft/relaxed mouth. No stiff lips please! That is just not good for me. And plenty of tongue, thank you very much. But INSIDE THE MOUTH. I mean... When I was younger, I had a thing with this guy... we were teens, but still... no excuse... So we were kissing. Great. Then he removes his tongue from inside my mouth and proceeds to LICK MY FACE! I mean... seriously! I couldn't even... This guy was licking the OUTSIDE of my mouth. For no good reason. So, that, for me is too much tongue! Also, I don't need a drill to inspect my tonsils, so yeah... Follow my lead, I guess! But I agree with the posters that said the way the guy grabs you can make it or break it! Hmmm... Now I want some kisses!
MissionPossible Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Is it a far stretch to suggest that there could be a correlation between kissing ability and social skill? For example, a socially anxious individual will make a bad kisser - and that individual was essentially born with that slot in life - hence they were born a bad kisser. I can happily attest to this not being at all true - my Mr. Anxiety is the best kisser I've come across in ages. Mmmm.
Omei Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Hmmm... good kissers... I have to say, for me, a good kisser needs to have a soft/relaxed mouth. No stiff lips please! That is just not good for me. And plenty of tongue, thank you very much. But INSIDE THE MOUTH. I mean... When I was younger, I had a thing with this guy... we were teens, but still... no excuse... So we were kissing. Great. Then he removes his tongue from inside my mouth and proceeds to LICK MY FACE! I mean... seriously! I couldn't even... This guy was licking the OUTSIDE of my mouth. For no good reason. So, that, for me is too much tongue! Also, I don't need a drill to inspect my tonsils, so yeah... Follow my lead, I guess! But I agree with the posters that said the way the guy grabs you can make it or break it! Hmmm... Now I want some kisses! Ugh you made me gag irl
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