NYyanks819 Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 Hey guys, Ok basically my story is simple I ended up falling for a girl who led me on via social media just to get her ex boyfriend jealous and really wants nothing to do with me. Regardless she played a joke on me and now I need to get my life back together. I am going to be posting here and going NC deleted all my social media because it doesn't help at all and working on myself. I have done this already and a few tips is I need to get angry at this girl, anytime I ever think of her in a positive I need to get pissed and upset to truly get over her in the beginning. I want to keep everyone updated for support I have my mom as well, but this forum is great. Biggest thing is NOT looking at her social media to see if she is with her bf or not b/c that sets me back etc Thanks for the help
Author NYyanks819 Posted May 16, 2014 Author Posted May 16, 2014 I also find it pretty hard to look at other women and talk to them now is that normal? I have lost my motivation in other areas of life as well. Like to work on my business work on fitness and other goals is that normal for the first week or two? Just trying to see what is normal and if this is all what you guys go through. I was told to if I am upset or sad to feel my feelings and not hide them helps. Also taking a rubber band and snapping it when I think of her in a positive way just want to get through this as fast as possible
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