hugznkisses21 Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 Ok so we are suppose to go to Cuba...we have invited his cousins, and their gfs.....well what happened was the one cousin couldnt come and then the cusin that is comming his gf is a recovering alcoholic so she felt the "all inclusive" thing wasnt a good idea with al the alcohol flowing....i agree....so now he still wants to go and that makes 3.....well we have looked into some options and it seems a toom for one person is drastically more expensive than a room for 2...so he has asked my bf if it would be ok with us if we do a large triples room. And if not he will go to South Carolina with friends from work instead. My bf made sure he asked me....i told him I didnt like the idea and that I would want "alone" time with him and he agreed that he would like that too but his cousin being quite independant and a bit older would be off doing his own thing and me and my bf would have time to be alone. So in the end i dont want to say NO u cant go to south carolina cause he is alot of funa nd a very nice guy we get along great with him but im telling people who i am going to cuba with and that we have to end up sharing a triples room (plus we save money that way) and someone said taht is weird. Am I wrong to think thats all right. I mean ofcousre I would love to be alone with my bf every night but im not going make a big deal...should I ? Im confused? My bf just wants to make everyone happy so he is a bit frustrated...Nothing is booked yet so maybe we can find a second room cheaper but as of now we are sharing...
Author hugznkisses21 Posted February 9, 2005 Author Posted February 9, 2005 Oh let me ad....I was thinking since we dont see eachother often...that the sex is going to be important but really I am just happy to be expierencing my first and his frist trip together and as long as I get to spend it with him thats what matters. People ahve just been telling me i shouldnt stand for this that is should be just me and him
very-confused-girl Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 Well I am sorry to say, but neither of you is in the position of dictating here. Three people in one room sounds like an acceptable option to me. It is going to be less cheaper than if you booked 2 rooms, so what? And if the cousin is funny? I also went to trip where I stayed with two people in one room and it wasnt a problem at all. It is up to you whether you make problem out of it!!! Be easy, go with the flow, I dont see any problem here, you should be glad you are going on holidays. And with regards to sex - i am sure the cousin is not going to be there all the time, you are going to have time for you, dont worry, if you both want you can always make a place and time to make love. You can even be a bit romantic and go to make love on a beach. I really cant see any problem here.
very-confused-girl Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 you know what i am thinking about - maybe the people that are trying to tell you that it is weird and they are trying to discourage you from trip, they are just jealous. I would not listen to them if I was you. You know tomorrow I am flying to thailand and a friend of mine told me that I should not go because of tsunami and diseases. I dont plan to go to place where tsunami was or anywhere near it, there are lots of places that are safe. You obviously are easily influenced by other people. Dont take this crap from them.
Author hugznkisses21 Posted February 9, 2005 Author Posted February 9, 2005 awww thanks! enjoy your trip! Yes my bf said the same thing...that is wasnt that he was thinking he didnt want to be alone or have sex with me...he was thinking we wil have opertunities to be alone and be spontanious and such.....yes i am very influence by people...i dont have a problem.....he doesnt and the cousin doesnt its just that alone time but im sure we will get it and it will be that much more exciting
very-confused-girl Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 Yes I think so too. Exactly. Maybe because of that reason that the cousin is going to be around sometimes, you two will be kind of "forced" to have spontaneous sex somewhere in the nature, which will be exciting. And from what I remember you were complaining about the lack of sex, that your boyfriend is losing his drive, so this would definitely warm him up again . Because this is going to be very beautiful and new experience for you too. And trust me, making love in the beautiful nature is the best - I know what I am talking about Go for it and enjoy it!
Hund1976 Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 As long as the reason you're sharing a room is that everyone is short on cash then I guess there's nothing you can do about it. But I would hope your boyfriend makes some time for just the two of you during this trip so its not a three's a crowd thing the whole time. I would say though if your boyfriends cousin's girlfriend didn't want to go on the trip then he shouldn't have gone either. Vacations with couples should have even numbers of people. How romantic will a long walk down the beach be if you have a third person tagging along?
Author hugznkisses21 Posted February 9, 2005 Author Posted February 9, 2005 Just got a call from him and his cousin called the travel agent and she can get him a room for only 200$ extra...so we decided to split all rooms 3 ways so we all pay even!!!
very-confused-girl Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 thats a good news. I am happy for you and enjoy your holidays!
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