Vero Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 (edited) Last October I had a "girlfriend" who I went out with for ~two months, but I never made it official. She ended up leading me on a told me a lame excuse as to why she did this, then started dating someone else less than a month later. I'll be honest, We really liked each other but I was super clingy (I suppose), and she is a nice person and did, in fact, care about how I felt. Now it is May and I'm not sure if her and her boyfriend are still going out. I overheard her in class one day saying "should I get back with him [other dude]?" Ever since this point, I think I have noticed that she has been acting "sluttier" I'm front of me in class. I sit next to my friend Nick and we've been friends with my ex since the class started. Now that school is ending, we watch movies in this class and she always moves up to sit next to Nick, laying her head on his shoulder, playing with his ears, rubbing his arm etc.. Occasionally when I sit behind them, this other guy, who also has a girlfriend, sits next to her and flirts with her, and they also touch each other a little. It seems she's always looking at me to see if I'm watching her. She was acting flirtatiously with the other dude after Nick, and the bell rang and she playfully said "get off of me haha" and look at me and smiled and said my name in a funny manner. Both these guys are my friends and they're really cool dudes, but I've NEVER seen my ex acting like this before. It feels like she wants my attention because every time I ignore her "stunts", my name pops out of her mouth or she looks at me and smiles. Why is she doing this? Edited May 16, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Candy_Pants Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 Who cares? Ignore her. Stop feeding into her attention seeking behavior. 2
pteromom Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 She wants to show you that she is happy, desirable, and moved on. In a very immature way.
Assasda Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 Easy. Its because you were a clingy wuss/wimp before, so she's testing you, to see if youre still clingy and ready to put her on the pedestal
sly_fly1 Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 they do this because they know it will piss you off, my suggestion. find a very hot girlfriend. and your ex. kill her out of your life. make her not exist anymore. she can see you, but you cant see her. women feed off of jealousy. and a funny fact is. women actually dress for other women. not men, they compete with eachother. your ex is now single and has a lot of competition with other girls to get the biggest buffest alphamale she can find. she knows your hurt over her. now its your time. go get big. buff, get a nice car and house. go do it. she might find another man and live a life. but when she sees how good your doing she will regret and be stuck in the ****ty life she has now. so get off your ass and start now. 1
stillafool Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 Maybe she's acting like a slut because she is one! 2
jbelle6 Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Maybe she's acting like a slut because she is one! This is sooooooooo what I was thinking lol.
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