crispywat Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 So here is the thing, me and my gf have had a great 2 months but then things i noticed went sour, we used to have loads of time together loads of laughs lot of flirting in day on texts etc, but now as we stand these thing jut done happen. since about 2 weeks ago, she is so distant, when she comes over she just sits there and watches TV no cuddling or anything even if i try. Equally we used to go upstairs possible thats definatly not happening. She texts me still but very one worders and also seems to want to organise things every weekend for her to do and not me. She now sees me possible 3 times a week which is down from 6.....i am not sure what to do. She also used to text missing me, and love you etc, they have totally dissapeared too. we seem to argue a little now, i went to hers yesterday and she totally ignored me when i got there as he family were around, when they went she just picked up her phone and went through it instead of seeing how i was etc. I have tried talking we had a textathon about it today, she said she knows she isnt effectionate (she used to be) she also says she doesnt wat to live in my pocket and doesnt see the point in seeing me each day. Bit harsh ? there is an underling thing that she was getting and talks to a male friend too, the texts i have seen i consider to be a little much (ie sweet dreams, and how come your up so late , not tht im complaining etc) i am assured there is nothing going on here, and they have known each other years but adds to the problem and increased my insecurity a little. They had opportunities to be together when my gf was single to be fair and they never did.
PegNosePete Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 It seems your relationship is coming to an end. She doesn't seem interested in you any more. Whether she's into this other guy or not seems immaterial - she's just not that into you. If I were you I would end it and find someone who is excited and interested in you.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 I agree with the above poster. She's losing interest. You could try to talk to her about it or just cut your losses and move on. It seems she's already got one foot out the door. Sorry, OP
johnpatric Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 PegNosePete is right she is losing interest in you,, I think you need to give her some space.. if she will try to contact you during those space or time it means she is really like you and wanna stay with you and if she will not try to contact you then its clear she is not interested any more..
Assasda Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 Youre needy, insecure, and you need her for validation. Thats why this is happening to you 1
jaycee1 Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 6 times a week!! That is a bit much if you ask me. In 2 months if you were seeing each other that much that fast, it sounds kind of like a burn out. Its easy to jump in fast but then you get attached without really knowing the person. My guess is she is realizing she isn't into you. Or if she is, maybe her real self isn't very attentive. It is easy to be blinded the first few months and be someone your not, your blinded by the initial rush of a new romance.
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