Was I dumped or what?

[lastniteshesaid]

Hey guys!

 

ok, if I tell the whole story it'll be too long and boring, so in short words, this guy, who works in a store, started flirting with me and I slowly got into him too.

He once gave me a kiss on the cheek out of nowhere. And a few days ago we talked for long minutes. A customer came over looking for him, and he asked me to wait, and we kept talking more and more. If he wasnt enjoying the conversation it wouldve been a good excuse to quit, right? He said some things which I know that are untrue, others were quite inconsistent, but I trusted his intentions, y'know? Though I was amazed because we seemed to have so many things in common.

Anyway, his coworker showed up and he abruptly cut the conversation off. I thought it was because he's not supposed to talk for so long with customers, but maybe he thought I was quite annoying or... idk.

 

A few days later I asked if his band (yes, he has a band) would have a gig or something so I could see him off his work, and he said that they didn't have any gig booked. Then I said "so I'll never get to see you out of this store" and he said "no."

 

I was clearly dumped, right? Of course it was embarassing, but why? The other guys who acted like him... things happened very easily, y'know?

 

I'm just wondering because I really can't understand it. Maybe I was too blunt? But it's been months since we're flirting and life is too short for that.

 

So, was I really dumped? Can I still trust my sense of judgement? XD

[bryceisbryce]

to be dumped you'd have to be going out. sounds like he just liked the attention and had no intentions of pursuing you in any way.

[ExpatInItaly]

???

 

No, you weren't dumped. You have to be in a relationship in order to be dumped, and you clearly were not in a relationship with this guy. So..there you have it.