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Did I break NC today? I never would look at her social media now, I avoid the triggers, and doing pretty well with NC so far.

 

My exes dad called me today. It makes me sad because I truly got to love her family. I stared at the phone, wondering if I should pick it up. He never calls me, I thought something was wrong. I picked up. I never thought I would hear such a strong man cry before. He was concerned about a job interview and he wanted my input. I was familiar with the process so I reassured him everything would be fine. I know all of his struggles, and I truly respect this man. If there is a god he would bless this man. He works really hard to support his wife and children.

 

So my question is ls community, is this considered breaking NC? If her female cousin calls me to talk, because we once were close, is that breaking NC too?

I don't have these stupid ideas of getting her back. It has been almost a year and her dad does not know she's with someone else yet. I only have this nostalgic feeling of man, I don't think your next boyfriends will ever have our relationship! It made me feel good, because the way she dumped me for someone else.. Oh well..

 

Thanks guys! Godspeed.:laugh:

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I wouldn't be too hard on yourself, he called you, he obviously knows you aren't together but respects your opinion.

 

He is probably as upset as you are about your relationship loss. A man who respected his daughter will have his respect.

 

You did the right thing imho.

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