sweetpotato111 Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 I was with my girlfriend for over 2 years when we broke up. She moved across the country with me while I was in the military and the first year was perfect. Things started going downhill when she wanted to get married and I didn't want to because I was married before and got screwed over, and would be a jerk to her about it. I really did love her, but was scared to get married again. Things got worse when we moved back home and I started spending too much time with my parents and sisters kids. I was feeling selfish and just wanted to do what I wanted and not worry about her. We broke up and it was really ugly. After about a few weeks I felt really bad for treating her badly and ignoring her to be with my family. She started talking to another guy and says that they are just friends. We started talking again and I told her I love her and would do anything to be with her. She told me, that I hurt her really bad and she wasn't sure if she could get back with me. She did say she loved me, but I destroyed her. It has been a couple months and we hang out a lot. I spend the night with her and she is affectionate. When I talk about our relationship she says she doesn't want to talk about it and needs time. We had sex the other day, and when I asked her about it the next day she said she didn't want to talk about that either. I got back in the military and I leave soon. She said she will miss me. I just wonder if there is a chance that we could end up back together. I love her so much, and I really would do anything to be with her. I just think she needs to see it, because before I would promise things and not follow through. I'm interested to see what people think about my chances of getting back with her, or if she is just using me. It stresses me out so much thinking about it, I can hardly stand it.
FredJones80 Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 No one can give you guess work on if she'll get back with you. None of us know her, you or the situation enough. All I can say is good luck and if she doesn't come back then you learn your lesson for not paying her attention and accept your failure. What more can you do? You're openly admitting you're in the wrong, if she can't forgive you then set her free... 1
Chi townD Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 Sounds like she's cooling her heels with you until something or someone else comes along. If you feel like she isn't going to budge on getting back with you. It kinda feels like when you have to go back, she'll be like, "Okay, be safe, BYE!" and not much else. 1
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