love1234 Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 hey ppl i need some help my gf broke up with me about 3 weeks ago and we have had no contact at all i have not called and she has not called me . i love this girl with all my heart and we have been together for 1year and 6 months....so my question is should i send her a test masg "happey Valentines day" and that all she is havein a hard time in life thanks for the help
DinNJ Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 She broke up with you??? Then don't send squat... she's expecting it.
CurvyGurl Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 Nope. She broke up with you. No declaration of love for her.
VirginiaBob Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 No way, do not send. She broke up with you. The ball is in her court to intitiate contact or not to.
roxy_1980 Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 It seems to be a little stalking-like to send a girl anything for valentine's day just after you've just broken up. It smells of desperation. Do nothing. Find a good singles event and live it there to take your mind off her for the night.
Sukotto Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Yeah plenty of clubs in my area are having singles events. She expects you to send her some declaration of love, but if she broke it off then why should it be your responsibility to initiate contact? Let her make the choices, everyone above i'm sure has tried the whole talking to the ex thing after a split and I'm sure every single one of them will tell you its not worth it.
sundrop Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Nope, Don't do it. Especially if you haven't spoken.
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