love1234 Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 hey ppl i need some help my gf broke up with me about 3 weeks ago and we have had no contact at all i have not called and she has not called me . i love this girl with all my heart and we have been together for 1year and 6 months....so my question is should i send her a test masg "happey Valentines day" and that all she is havein a hard time in life thanks for the help Link to post Share on other sites
DinNJ Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 She broke up with you??? Then don't send squat... she's expecting it. Link to post Share on other sites
CurvyGurl Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 Nope. She broke up with you. No declaration of love for her. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 Do not send her anything. Link to post Share on other sites
VirginiaBob Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 No way, do not send. She broke up with you. The ball is in her court to intitiate contact or not to. Link to post Share on other sites
roxy_1980 Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 It seems to be a little stalking-like to send a girl anything for valentine's day just after you've just broken up. It smells of desperation. Do nothing. Find a good singles event and live it there to take your mind off her for the night. Link to post Share on other sites
Sukotto Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Yeah plenty of clubs in my area are having singles events. She expects you to send her some declaration of love, but if she broke it off then why should it be your responsibility to initiate contact? Let her make the choices, everyone above i'm sure has tried the whole talking to the ex thing after a split and I'm sure every single one of them will tell you its not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
sundrop Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Nope, Don't do it. Especially if you haven't spoken. Link to post Share on other sites
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