Is it a rebound?

[Troyalan12345]

We broke up jan 28th we dated for almost two years

She started talking to some guy in feb. Started dating around either mid march or early april cant really pin point just know its around there

On feb 14 we had sex and three days after that as well. I slept. At her house and hung out with her still everyday.

She cried in my arms in march after we went to kohls, she was on the phone with him when i parkwd so i got mad went in the store and xame out she goes i dont like this guy i just need time im sorry

 

On easter she told me she hopped into something new and just to give her space and such

 

Last weekend she tells me i think when i realize im inlove with you youll be moved on

 

On april 16th she tells me go through hell now get me back later ( i was contacting her and blowing her up so she meant by giving he a months space )

 

So heres what i know about this loser

 

Hes completely opposite of me kindof good guy bad guy

He listens to screamo i listen to rap and so forth

 

She rushed into sex and intimacy and allt hat i believe

 

What ive seen by her is she talks to other guys as friends ( never did that with me ) she sees me sometimes but lies and says shes with someone else

 

We talked the other night and she said she doesnt know why she broke up with me and she we have unresolved issues. She still has everything i gave her notes and this bear we made in march called "forever bear" she named it that because our love is forever and she put this heart in it called one a million and the lady at the store goes make a wish " so when we walked out i go what did you wish for? She goes that we get back together someday soon.

 

And we decided to go NC till june 5th. So i just want to know ( im not moving on i want her back i know shes the one so dont reply if your going to say move on) 1. Is it a rebound yes or no? 2. Am i doing the right thing by giving her space? 3. How should i approach her on the 5th?

 

Also. If i did this to her at the same time she was doing this she would **** this girl up, so i dont mind waiting for her at all just give me advice

[Donna066]

I would like to know if my ex is in a rebound relationship. We split in dec 2013 by February he was in a relationship. We had been married 21 years, he told me I was his best friend his rock. I loved him very much but he took so much on he pushed his family away. Played in a band at weekends which I supported for 14 years. He also has MS which I stood by him with. When I left the first 3 weeks he was a mess, then a week later he's in a relationship, he loves her and he does all the things with her we as a family wanted him to do. He has no one else other than us. His family don't keep in touch with him or his kids. He says it's not rebound he did his grieving those first 3 weeks, he posts picture of them on Facebook and Twitter, the children and I have asked him not to out of respect, he just says he's not living in a box, thinks we should be over it as well. After 21 years I can't move on that quickly, is it rebound for him.