jt27 Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Anyone out there always been the dumper/dumpee or been with someone that always was the dumper/dumpee? Why do think this is so?
Virgin26 Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Anyone out there always been the dumper/dumpee or been with someone that always was the dumper/dumpee? Why do think this is so? I've been in both situations and it sucks. My ex was always the dumpee before he met me, and I think that made me trust him a little more than I should. I believed all his sad breakup stories, and how he's always the victim. After all the promises of a "forever together", he was acting like an ass towards the end of our relationship so I'll dump him. When I wasn't going anywhere (I was making excuses for him), he kind of had to do the dumping, and was still acting as a victim!!!! Lesson learned: the best indicator of future behavior, is past behavior. People don't really change that much and will show their true color when they become comfortable around you!! 1
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