hpjunke Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Ok I meet a girl not to long ago who I feel at this point I really dig recently she's a36 year old mom of an 11 year old girl . Me ? Iam a 34 year old guy with no kids .We live about 45 miles from each other (1 hour ish ) drive and she has stated when she has her daughter she doesn't go out or really likes to talk on the phone which I understand it and respect her time. We have meet 2 times and really had a great time both times first time was dinner and we went to get drinks after and just talked( I meet her half ways from our houses )second was I went to her in her area and seen a comedy show and dinner. I then took her back to her car and after our hug I kissed her which she also went in for which I thought it was good and mutual . Sunday we texted somewhat because of the holiday Monday i did not because she said she was busy Tuesday I did text her and I know she's been telling me her work has been busy and she has her little one . So I'm trying to respect her time as much as I can but texting is an only method of interaction unless we get in a slight phone call or two. I'm used to texting her daily but i fell like I'm over doing it sorta speak so I stopped texting and see where it goes .. Thoughts ?
Assasda Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Youre just about correct man. You dont want to text too much uinless its constructive, or you seem like you dont have your own life going
Author hpjunke Posted May 15, 2014 Author Posted May 15, 2014 Youre just about correct man. You dont want to text too much uinless its constructive, or you seem like you dont have your own life going i agree i just iam the one that initiates the contact , like she may be guarding herself a bit from me because of the child but she has given me no reason to doubt her in anyway im just wondering when i can see her again so i did send a text asking about her day and we will go onto when i can actually see this person again ..
deathandtaxes Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 Have you set plans for a third date, OP? That's what your next texts should be about. If you haven't, get right on it. If you have set it, chill out! Lay back. Miss her a bit. You'll see her. And you can talk to her then.
PegNosePete Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 Text to set up dates. Early on, "how is your day" style texts set up more of a friendship frame.
Author hpjunke Posted May 15, 2014 Author Posted May 15, 2014 Have you set plans for a third date, OP? That's what your next texts should be about. If you haven't, get right on it. If you have set it, chill out! Lay back. Miss her a bit. You'll see her. And you can talk to her then. we have talked about a third date yeah but she did make it clear this week and some of the next will be busy as she doesn't know the work schedule as of yet and her little girl is her top priority but in her words she said we will figure out something so i have to chill out about asking her for anything ... lately its been small texts so we really haven't engaged in a conversation so i can bring up anything .
Author hpjunke Posted May 15, 2014 Author Posted May 15, 2014 Text to set up dates. Early on, "how is your day" style texts set up more of a friendship frame. sure i do say hows your day and hows work and what not but this is the only way we talk when she has her daughter mommy mode is something i have to understand and give her time for that . but when we do text again ill ask ..
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