Taylor28 Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 So my ex was texting random messages to me and I started to wonder what they meant. He was texting me everyday for over a week. Nothing important just ' i got a new phone' ' how are the cats' so it got me thinking Did he miss me? Did he want to be friends? Why text an ex everyday?! Everyone on here would of said to go nc but I guess I was holding on to the hope he would still want me back. So when he text me this morning I asked if he wanted to meet up. From my point of view what was the worst that could happen, he would say no hurt me again but at least I would know where I stood instead of these mind games with the text messages. He said he needed time to think cos in his experience it only makes things worse and doesn't help anything and he doesn't want to upset me. Yes it hurt and broke my heart again but it is what I needed to hear. He's moved on and I guess I knew that. All the advice I had on here told me that but I guess in my head i thought know one else really knew my relationship. Things could be different for me. For some people that is true but that is very rare. When someone gives advice on here it's not to be mean or hurt you but to be realistic. I should of listened but I guess I had to find out for myself the hard way. So now I'm back at square 1 again, it's just this time I know there is no hope of getting back together and I have to move on for my happiness.
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