slimmontana Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Ok so I have been seeing this girl for the past two months. Everything has been GREAT!!! So I had sex with her this weekend and slipped up and deposited semen inside of her. When she found out she flipped out!! She said Im putting her at risk for pregnancy it would ruin her life. She asked me to leave didnt even say goodbye to me or call me to find out if I made it home ok. We live in the same state four hours apart. I tried to explain to her it was an accident that I AM NOT TRYING TO IMPREGNATE her. We usually talk everyday but today radio silence. So I called her we talk for a few minutes she states that she has never had anyone accidentally nut in her b4 that you know you just pull out. We chatted for about 5 minutes than she said she was watching a movie and had to go. At this point I really feel like I dont even want to be with her anymore despite all the great chemistry we have and all the great times we have shared. Ireally dont like the fact that she is not willing to communicate on this issue to iron it out. I have reached out to her a couple of times once through text today and once through the phone to real progress was made. Should I ask her to take a Plan B? Or just ignore the situation until she is ready to talk again..Or just kick her to the curb and hope in a couple of months she doesnt come back pregnant.
John manning Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Ahaha this gave me a laugh , thanks for that first of all. I think first you should respect her emotions ad she kind of has the right to be a little bit annoyed, its more frustration and anxiety but because you caused it your gonna be the one that its directed at I'm afraid. Its not one of them things thats worth breaking up over and if shes not pregnant then it will all smooth over. If she is you got another problem and its gonna put strain on your relationship. My advice is just ive her a little bit of space to cool off.
ayala Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 The Plan B is most effective up to 72 hours, how long has it been? She has a right to be freaking out. Being pregnant is a huge responsibility and strain both physically and mentally. It's stressful for the potential father as well but no matter how you look at it, it's not your body. Is she on birth control? Was there a condom involved or were you just using the pull-out method? Yes communication is key but sometimes people need their space. Maybe she's not ready and its definitely a strain on her with the fear of being pregnant when she's obviously not ready to have a baby. Just give her time, suggest the Plan B if she's worried about pregnancy. Better late than never.
Author slimmontana Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 The Plan B is most effective up to 72 hours, how long has it been? She has a right to be freaking out. Being pregnant is a huge responsibility and strain both physically and mentally. It's stressful for the potential father as well but no matter how you look at it, it's not your body. Is she on birth control? Was there a condom involved or were you just using the pull-out method? Yes communication is key but sometimes people need their space. Maybe she's not ready and its definitely a strain on her with the fear of being pregnant when she's obviously not ready to have a baby. Just give her time, suggest the Plan B if she's worried about pregnancy. Better late than never. No she is not on birth control...no condoms...we were supposed to be using the pull-out method but that didnt happen. I will suggest Plan B. Hope that she takes it.
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