manolete Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Hello everybody, I met this girl last week in a on-line dating site (actually she contacted me, which from a man point of view, is not so usual). At that time she was spending her holidays in the Caribbean and for one week we were exchanging whatsapp messages every day several times a day. Finally we meet yesterday, we went for a tea after work. We were talking during 3 hours and I am really impressed with her, very impressed . My opinion is that I am more impressed than her than she is with me. The thing is, we set up another meeting for Sunday, we are going for a bike trip, and I don't know how she takes it: whether she just needs a bike partner or if she is interested. I have also thought about asking her to go out for dinner some day this weekend (before the bike trip), but I don't want to look too eager. I just want her to know that I am going for something more than friendship. I would appreciate if somebody could give me hints on how to proceed in a polite-non-eager way. Should I just send her a message saying how much fun it was yesterday and that I look forward for Sunday? Do you think it would be OK to ask her out for dinner? Thank you very much, any advice will be appreciated!
halfcrazed_i Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Why don't you go on that bike trip and then take it from there? I'm sure that by going on that trip, you'd get to know each other more. And you can suss out what her intentions are. And you can also start dropping hints that you'd like to date her further...
Author manolete Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 Maybe I will look eager, but waiting until Sunday seems to me like a long time :-) You might be right. Probably the best thing to do will be to send her a message telling here yesterday was very fun and I am looking forward for the trip.... Why don't you go on that bike trip and then take it from there? I'm sure that by going on that trip, you'd get to know each other more. And you can suss out what her intentions are. And you can also start dropping hints that you'd like to date her further...
Onehit Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Maybe I will look eager, but waiting until Sunday seems to me like a long time :-) You might be right. Probably the best thing to do will be to send her a message telling here yesterday was very fun and I am looking forward for the trip.... Could you not combine lunch somewhere with the bike trip? Cycle to a restaurant or bring a picnic?
d0nnivain Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Today is Wednesday. Tomorrow send a quick e-mail or text saying you are looking forward to the bike trip Sunday. When you see her Sunday, have fun. At some point when you are off the bikes touch her . . . hold her hand, touch her arm, put your hand at the small of her back. Before you leave her Sunday set up a dinner date
Author manolete Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 Today is Wednesday. Tomorrow send a quick e-mail or text saying you are looking forward to the bike trip Sunday. When you see her Sunday, have fun. At some point when you are off the bikes touch her . . . hold her hand, touch her arm, put your hand at the small of her back. Before you leave her Sunday set up a dinner date I sent a message couple of hours ago. But yeah, basically that's the plan. Thanks!
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