MrGuy Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Just talked to my girlfriend recently and she said "You know I'll always have some sort of love for you" asked her what she meant by that but she never clarified she just said she didn't know how else to say it. Any help?
MidwestUSA Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Just talked to my girlfriend recently and she said "You know I'll always have some sort of love for you" asked her what she meant by that but she never clarified she just said she didn't know how else to say it. Any help? Oh boy. It sounds like 'some sort of love' is not the love you probably WISH she would have for you. It sounds like she's on her way out. What's the status of your relationship?
Author MrGuy Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 (edited) Very rocky we've been fighting a lot and she tried to break up with me but she came back. She tried to take a break a few months ago in which i left her alone and i thought that we wouldn't talk to each other for awhile but she asked me to take her back the next day... so she's always uncertain but i don't blame her since i make it very difficult for her. Edited May 14, 2014 by MrGuy
MidwestUSA Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 I'll stand by me first reply then. If you continue in this relationship, expect it to be more of the same. Rocky. So sorry, but you might want to rethink it for your own sanity. Good luck!
Author MrGuy Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 Well she clarified it more for me this time, she said the reason she said that is if we break up and even if i hurt her feelings she'll always have some sort of love. I then replied with are you still thinking about breaking up? and she responded with "I don't think about it" (if there's one thing i know about her is that she will always be truthful about things and about us so i believe her on that) but it also confuses me. She even said she loves me today out of the blue. So confused...
luvshaq Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 She either loves you or she doesn't. I think what she's experiencing is more infatuation and less love. Is she making decisions based on what her current mood is? Like someone above said, it's likely to continue. Do yourself a favor and move on from her so she doesn't bring you down every time she has a mood change.
Author MrGuy Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 well before when she got mad a lot she always tried to break up. Lately it wasn't as bad and seemed to stop until recently. But I have been an annoyance to her b/c i suffer from paranoia (it's pretty bad, in fact I plan to go to a therapist for it). Any who I believe she loves me but it's hard to say when she does those things, to her when she says "some sort of love" might seem right, and i see it as a completely different thing.
d0nnivain Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 She is no longer head over heals in romantic love with you but she thinks you are a nice guy. If your relationship is not over yet, it's headed in that direction.
PegNosePete Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 the reason she said that is if we break up and even if i hurt her feelings she'll always have some sort of love. ... she responded with "I don't think about it" Well she's obviously thinking about it, if she's talking about it. Alarm bells are ringing. She is checking out of the relationship. Sounds like she's trying to mentally prepare you to be dumped, so you don't get too hurt.
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