johndail Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Me and my ex broke up almost a year ago. We have a bunch of mutual friends in common so in that year after we broke up we have hung out at parties , hooked up a couple of times and had fights. I have asked her before to meet up and it was to tell her that I can't be friends with her or that we don't need to be around each other when we're drunk. But a day ago I texted to see if we can meet up and I never got a response from her and I assume because she thinks I'm just going to tell that we can't be friends but all I really wanted to say was that I apologize for how I have been and that I'm sorry for making a complete a$$ and fool of myself and that she doesn't have to worry about it anymore, that I'm done trying to make her fall back in love with me...If she ever actually was. So since she hasn't responded and since I wanted to tell her face to face do i just leave it alone or do I actually send her a text saying that??? And i really am over her...i have no feelings anymore towards her. I just want to make it normal with us again. Just need some advice.
Ordinaryday Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Me and my ex broke up almost a year ago. We have a bunch of mutual friends in common so in that year after we broke up we have hung out at parties , hooked up a couple of times and had fights. I have asked her before to meet up and it was to tell her that I can't be friends with her or that we don't need to be around each other when we're drunk. But a day ago I texted to see if we can meet up and I never got a response from her and I assume because she thinks I'm just going to tell that we can't be friends but all I really wanted to say was that I apologize for how I have been and that I'm sorry for making a complete a$$ and fool of myself and that she doesn't have to worry about it anymore, that I'm done trying to make her fall back in love with me...If she ever actually was. So since she hasn't responded and since I wanted to tell her face to face do i just leave it alone or do I actually send her a text saying that??? And i really am over her...i have no feelings anymore towards her. I just want to make it normal with us again. Just need some advice. Im sorry to say this but no response IS A RESPONSE: one which says "I have nothing to say to you, there is nothing left between us". it is harsh, it has happened to me as well, I went out with a woman a few times and she promised to get back to me to arrange our next date and I never heard from her again. after a week I texted her asking if she still wanted to go out (I was in denial that maybe she was just "really busy" and not ignoring me) and she just ignored the text. No response IS a response. just figure that you are better without people like that in your life.
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