Author WonderYears23 Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 Why don't you start dating other women and keep her on the side? It's the same thing that she's doing to you. Keep her around until you find a woman capable of being your girlfriend. She doesn't need to know this. Just cut back on communication. Text each other, meet up, bang it out ... then put your time and effort into the ones that you want to pursue a relationship with. In a way that has already happened. Not dating or anything like that but the fun stuff. I've been with other women and have been other relationships but for some god damn reason she is the only girl I've ever had true feelings for. I never really been in "real" love until she came into my life.
Gillan88 Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 My ex-girlfriends is really sex addicted: she had same behaviours of your! They hurt me and when I asking why "I don't know" or other non-sense motivations. When I say she that I would break up she always start crying saying that this is not she wants. She became cold with no true reason, also for bull****... stays days and days cold. And when asking why she said me always "i don't know". She acts like she wants to hurt me, but do they don't want to do! What the hell they have in the mind? They are really confused? Do they really cares about partner or they are lying? They know what in their's mind is happening? It looks like they are unconsciously sabotage the relation!
Simon Phoenix Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 Oooo forgot to mention she hates talking on the phone and we hardly ever do. But she just called and left a message worrying about me She's tugging at the leash dude and she's used to jumping up like a puppy looking for a treat. Because that's how you act around her.
Simon Phoenix Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 In a way that has already happened. Not dating or anything like that but the fun stuff. I've been with other women and have been other relationships but for some god damn reason she is the only girl I've ever had true feelings for. I never really been in "real" love until she came into my life. Well, what you are doing isn't going to get her back to dating you. She can have the milk without paying for the cow right now, why would she change that? She can keep using you for pleasure until she finds another guy that she connects with both emotionally and physically. Then all of a sudden, she'll throw the "this feels wrong and I don't think we should do this anymore" and drop you completely in every aspect, physically and emotionally.
Gillan88 Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 It looks like they are unconsciously sabotage the relation! She starts this strange behaviour after the first fight: is this people, for shame, trying to destroy the relationship? Are you start to fight with your bf before this event?
Author WonderYears23 Posted May 16, 2014 Author Posted May 16, 2014 Updated here on Wednesday night...last night I went to my exes gpa's calling hours with my family to pay respects. When i told her where i was for the evening I told her. Almost to see how jealous she would get. Wow was I right. She was furious saying that I'm going to have feelings for her and I'm going to go back with her and all this ****. She knows we had a great sex life and thinks I'm going to have sex during these sad times. She was living. But in a way it showed me she doesn't want anyone else in my life. So was really passionate and showing strong emotions that I've never seen from her. So tonight I was off and she insisted we hang out for a bit and she wasn't in the best of moods (that time of the month) but I told her I felt that I'm ready to move on with this or I'm done. We spent an hour together just laughing, flirting and talking yes marriage. The way I've seen her of late is something I've never seen in her and that's confidence. She has this aura that never existed and I think being off her Meds have changed. I see more emotions then ever bc all that stuff does is mask em. But she is already wanting to see me ASAP
Simon Phoenix Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 Updated here on Wednesday night...last night I went to my exes gpa's calling hours with my family to pay respects. When i told her where i was for the evening I told her. Almost to see how jealous she would get. Wow was I right. She was furious saying that I'm going to have feelings for her and I'm going to go back with her and all this ****. She knows we had a great sex life and thinks I'm going to have sex during these sad times. She was living. But in a way it showed me she doesn't want anyone else in my life. So was really passionate and showing strong emotions that I've never seen from her. So tonight I was off and she insisted we hang out for a bit and she wasn't in the best of moods (that time of the month) but I told her I felt that I'm ready to move on with this or I'm done. We spent an hour together just laughing, flirting and talking yes marriage. The way I've seen her of late is something I've never seen in her and that's confidence. She has this aura that never existed and I think being off her Meds have changed. I see more emotions then ever bc all that stuff does is mask em. But she is already wanting to see me ASAP She threw out the bait, and you bit. That's all this is. I'd love to be wrong, but I've seen this play out thousands of times. 1
jbelle6 Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 Careful wonder. Change the sexes of your story and think about it. If your ex was the male your story would be cliche.
Zahara Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 There's nothing new to this story. As I said before she will manipulate and get you roped in again. And that still doesn't change the situation you are in. You're just going back to the same old thing. Go see her. I don't think you're ready. NC and moving on is a choice.
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