inlin Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 So I noticed that my ex unblocked me on facebook and surprisingly our pics of us together are still up and I am still tagged. It doesn't bother me, but I'm wondering if I should block her or just do nothing.
FortunateSon Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Block her!! I was in the same situation as you, after I blocked her it was an incredible relief not to have to deal with it anymore. It was one of the most helpful things I did post-BU, moving forward. 2
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 No dont block her!! that will just show u still have some emotion towards it. Just change the settings so you cant see her stuff that wil have more of an impact than blocking x 1
Author inlin Posted May 13, 2014 Author Posted May 13, 2014 Well even tho she unblocked me were not even friends on facebook, but I am still tagged in pics of us.
organizedchaos Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Well even tho she unblocked me were not even friends on facebook, but I am still tagged in pics of us. Do you "need" to block her in order to heal? If not, let it be. Hide the pics from your timeline if you don't want others to see them.
Author inlin Posted May 13, 2014 Author Posted May 13, 2014 Do you "need" to block her in order to heal? If not, let it be. Hide the pics from your timeline if you don't want others to see them. I don't know, I just don't like the fact that I'm tagged in her pictures. I guess I can untag myself but I don't want to look hurt or like a wimp.
Always Pondering Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I don't know, I just don't like the fact that I'm tagged in her pictures. I guess I can untag myself but I don't want to look hurt or like a wimp. I don't think she would even notice, Facebook doesn't give you notifications for that stuff iirc. I wouldn't notice anyways.
Simon Phoenix Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Yeah, you don't get notifications from other people untagging. If you don't want to be tagged, just untag. She won't notice unless she randomly goes to the pictures and pays attention.
organizedchaos Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 I don't know, I just don't like the fact that I'm tagged in her pictures. I guess I can untag myself but I don't want to look hurt or like a wimp. Then just hide them from your timeline and be done with it. That's what I did with photos she still has me tagged in.
SomeHeart Posted May 16, 2014 Posted May 16, 2014 It really does depend on how you feel about the breakup and the whole situation. If you're not really affected by it and you're not tempted to check up on her or contact her then you could leave her but if it has any effect on you at all maybe it's best to block her.
avacado Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 I blocked my ex not long after the breakup and it helped immensely. At first I just unfriended her, but there was always that off chance that I'd see her face on a mutual friend's wall, see her invited to a party, or any of the other ways you can "bump into" someone on Facebook. So I blocked her, and felt much, much better. She probably knows, and she probably understands why I did it and doesn't blame me. But her awareness or opinion of my action is her business, not mine. Do what makes you feel better and don't worry about what she might think.
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