Valen Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Which would you choose: "Love without sex" or "Sex without love"? "Love without sex" means you are in a loving relationship where you and your partner can't have sex. "Sex without love" is a relationship where you both are only in it for the constant great sex but you and your partner don't have much emotional connection. Which situation would you choose? In other words, would you pick love or sex?
Author Valen Posted May 13, 2014 Author Posted May 13, 2014 Love without sex, but with foreplay. Ha! No foreplay for you too!
Els Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 No foreplay for you too! What, no foreplay!?! Haha, seriously, I'd still go with love. If there were foreplay then it'd be a much easier choice, though.
iris219 Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 With my current partner, I'd choose love; if he became unable to have sex, I wouldn't leave him. However, I wouldn't start a new relationship with someone I knew couldn't have sex. I'd just stay single.
Grumpybutfun Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Which would you choose: "Love without sex" or "Sex without love"? "Love without sex" means you are in a loving relationship where you and your partner can't have sex. "Sex without love" is a relationship where you both are only in it for the constant great sex but you and your partner don't have much emotional connection. Which situation would you choose? In other words, would you pick love or sex? What fresh hell is this? Not even going to think about this Sophie's Choice. G I'd choose love, but don't tell sex. 3
central Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Both. One of each, ideally. But if that wasn't possible, I'd probably choose sex over love. I already have close friends that can fill the emotional connection well enough, but I'm not ready to give up sex, especially after a long, sexless first marriage.
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Both... with two different people.. obviously.
Frank2thepoint Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Which would you choose: "Love without sex" or "Sex without love"? I'd choose love. Because you can do lots of kissing and cuddling, which makes me feel warm and fuzzy for a very long time. No foreplay for you too! What? This game is rigged with stupid rules. 1
acrosstheuniverse Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I'd choose love: snuggling/kissing/cuddling/spooning/talking etc. with my boyfriend can leave me higher on love and more giddy and daydreamy than an orgasm Not that I'd want to give up sex, but I'd rather have all of that together and not have sex, than have great sex with **** buddies and no emotional connection or person to snuggle up to and sleep with night after night. Plus you can only have sex so many times in a day, and as relationships progress, it becomes more like so many times per week, and for some relationships/marriages, per month. What you do the rest of the time is what you build a life together around.
Targetlock Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 why not both? I would choose love, sex is the bonus part of a great relationship in my opinion.
MissBee Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I'd choose love: snuggling/kissing/cuddling/spooning/talking etc. with my boyfriend can leave me higher on love and more giddy and daydreamy than an orgasm Not that I'd want to give up sex, but I'd rather have all of that together and not have sex, than have great sex with **** buddies and no emotional connection or person to snuggle up to and sleep with night after night. Plus you can only have sex so many times in a day, and as relationships progress, it becomes more like so many times per week, and for some relationships/marriages, per month. What you do the rest of the time is what you build a life together around. Ditto. Love. I can always masturbate. 1
EverLastluv Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 both! Love provides a relationship, sex keeps a long lasting relationship!
central Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 The responses so far seem to negate the pain of all the people posting about their sexless relationships with someone they love! Or is it that those who choose love over sex are the LD spouses of those unfortunate posters?
sillyanswer Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Which situation would you choose? In other words, would you pick love or sex? Neither, I'd go and look for a more well-rounded relationship, but it's an impossible hypothetical scenario (because in real life you can't really tell whether the one you're not getting will really never happen).
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