iamsad1 Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I meet a girl few months back on FB. She was new to the city and was looking for a job. She asked me to help her out and I agreed (I am a Recruiter by profession). She found a job, she called me up, she was happy and she wanted meet up for dinner. First time I went to meet her she told me that she wants to come home with me, I was not very interested in her so I denied and dropped her home at night. Then she started calling me, texting me every day, one fine day she called me up in the morning and told me that she has lost her wallet, cards, passport, room keys everything and she needed my help. I went and meet her and she started crying and all then she told me that she wants to come home with me as she is very upset. She came home with me, stayed at night, I did not even touch her. Next week end again she called me and came to my house, this time she kissed me for the first time and started flirting with me. I don know why but i also started responding to her. After that we started meeting up in week ends for next 3-4 weeks, talking over the phone at night. She came to my house 5-6 times, we kissed, we hugged, touched but we never did intercourse. During this 1 and half months time I realised that this girl has some issue, she is not like any other girl, things were not going good between us and I broke up with her. It was a 1 and half months relationship and we never had intercourse. After I broke up with her, she started threatning me that if I don marry her she will inform my parents, she will take legal action against me, She will spoil my life. It's been two months since we broke up but still she will call me everyday and message me, threaten me. My life has already become hell, don't know how to get rid of it. Please help. Do you think she can take any action against me? Legally? Thanks! Note: I forgot to mention that she is a divorcee and 4 years older than me.
John manning Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 By the sounds of it she sounds like someone whos pretty used of getting what they want when they want it. The fact that you said no to her just made her want you even more, You dodged a bullet on that one well spotted. I'm pretty sure theres no action she can take on you legally , just block all contact with her
David87 Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 What a drama queen, it's a good thing you don't have anything to do with her anymore. Ignore her texts and calls or better yet block her number. She can't do anything against you legally. 2
Candy_Pants Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Save all texts, emails, voicemails, etc.. Depending on your location you might be able to record phone conversations. Do NOT respond to her. She's deranged. Get a restraining order. 3
Author iamsad1 Posted May 13, 2014 Author Posted May 13, 2014 Yes, She is a psycho.. and that's why I am afraid. She had asked me to have sex with her so many times but i don know how but every time I denied having intercourse.
No Limit Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Only thing that can help you is a restraining order. She'll give up in time.
KaliLove Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Like I always say, Facebook is the ancient Sanskrit word for Satan's Website. Ok, OP..say D'oh and smack yourself in the forehead because you totally brought this on yourself. You should have cut this off when she started obsessively calling and texting you every day. But what's done is done, and now you're stuck with this bizarro chick. I agree..save all the texts, emails, and voicemails, find a lawyer, and take out a restraining order before this chick actually acts on any of her threats. Oh, and warn your parents in case she says something to them.
giblesp Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Save all texts, emails, voicemails, etc.. Depending on your location you might be able to record phone conversations. Do NOT respond to her. She's deranged. Get a restraining order. Agreed. Might be worth doing a quick report to the police. Don't go for a girl unless you really like her in future!
Chi townD Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Get a restraining order out on her. You mentioned passport. By chance, is she a foreigner? Could explain her urgency to get married.
Author iamsad1 Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 She is not a foreigner..I don want to take legal action against her. My Dad is going through treatment and I just dont want him to get involved in this. He is recovering very slowly. If I take legal action she might also do the same.
martaldn Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 and i thought i was a drama queen...!! what you think with legal action against you? I am pretty sure she is just plain crazy and desperate for attention. as someone said save all the evidences and you will be fine. other than that just ignore her, she will find someone to bother pretty soon. 1
Haydn Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 You?, Never. and i thought i was a drama queen...!! what you think with legal action against you? I am pretty sure she is just plain crazy and desperate for attention. as someone said save all the evidences and you will be fine. other than that just ignore her, she will find someone to bother pretty soon.
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