tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 I got a dose of my own medicine this past weekend. My husband says that there are men that pay soooo much attention to me, give me entirely too much attention, act a little too interested, whatever. I rarely notice. He's seems to see it often, or so he says. But the waitress lady at Chili's the other night was TOTALLY flirting with him. "Hon", "Babe", googly eyes...sh*t like that. It was blatant. And I was sitting right there with him. We were at the bar watching the super bowl. We stayed for a while, ate chips, he drank some beers, we had dinner (hanging out at a bar is definitely a rarity for us). But he ignored her. And kept paying me lots of attention. Poor b*tch. I loved it. But it was the first time something like that has happened. Kinda sucks when someone's hittin on your man right in front of ya. But he was so damn hot, he was dressed up in his hot ass jeans, hot ass shoes and his hot ass shirt. Anyway, I took him home and f*cked his brains out. I don't know what I'm bitchin about. I'm not really even bitching. It made me feel good that someone else noticed him and couldn't have him no way, no shape, no how. Gotta love it.
FolderWife Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Still, it would piss me off that some skanky ass chick would think that she could catch MY MAN'S attention with me RIGHT THERE! I mean, who does she think she is!? That's totally disrespectufl I think it's awesome the way your man handled it
Merin Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 LOL My BF is the same way.. that he always says he see's guys looking at me, giving me to much attention, whatever.. but I don't notice it, he says he cannot believe I don't see it, but honestly I don't. Something funny.. the other night we went out with some of my friends.. another couple.. anyway we were at a club dancing and my GF wanted me to dance with her and her BF.. I was in-between the 2 of them and my BF was behind my Girl.. anyway.. her BF was allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll about this and later on my girl told me.. "Damn Your Man is either very shy OR very loyal" I was like >> she said he wouldn't put his hands directly on her *Good Man* I do notice when other Girls are checking him out.. but probably because he is respectful to me like that (just like your hubby was.. giving you the attention and ignoring the waitress) I don't let it bother me.. and yeah.. I'm like hell yeah he's hot, and he's MINE!
Author tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by Monday Still, it would piss me off that some skanky ass chick would think that she could catch MY MAN'S attention with me RIGHT THERE! I mean, who does she think she is!? That's totally disrespectufl I think it's awesome the way your man handled it Should I have done anything different, I just ignored her. And I NEVER mentioned it to him. Maybe I should've teased him and been like, "Yeah, she really wanted you...too bad you got enough on your hands, eh?"....lmao He did look so hot. And of course I was freeballin it (per se) in my comfy baggy pants, my Cleveland Steamers tee (complete with white long johns underneath) and my doc martens. Oh and my cute yellow hat. I looked good dammit. But he was all dressed up, I was all dressed down...lol. Oh fwell.
FolderWife Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 You handled her with class even though she had none
Pocky Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 She may not have even meant to offend you but is just in the habit of "working" it for a good tip.
Author tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 Isn't it sad that she felt like she could/had to hit on him with his wife sitting right beside him? That's sad. Knowing we're newlyweds and wouldn't trade each other for the world is like a big fat "in your face!".....lmao
Author tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky She may not have even meant to offend you but is just in the habit of "working" it for a good tip. See, I thought about that too. I didn't even act abnormal or anything. We just continued on with our conversations, we were so into each other. But you could be right, I thought about that. B*tch just wants a good tip. And he kept on and ON AND ON about how much he should tip her...lol...like there was no way he was 'going there' without me. What a sweetheart.
Merin Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by tiki See, I thought about that too. I didn't even act abnormal or anything. We just continued on with our conversations, we were so into each other. But you could be right, I thought about that. B*tch just wants a good tip. And he kept on and ON AND ON about how much he should tip her...lol...like there was no way he was 'going there' without me. What a sweetheart. Well it could've been about the tip.. BUT STILL she called him "Babe" IMO.. yeah thats something I would reserve ONLY for my BF or one of my little people.. not even someone I was trying to hit on.. is this just me?
savethedrama4allama Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 As long as my bf doesn't give her the time of day, I take it as an extreme compliment.
Author tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 I don't call anyone terms of endearment unless I'm either being condescending (and even then, it's a rarity) or if I'm in a relationship with them. I don't like being called hon, sweetie, ANYTHING like that.
ThumbingMyWay Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Some people are just flirty by nature.... My wife is a huge flirt. She flirts with men and women. With me right there too. I have to say that most people dont know how to take it. Men especially. Kinda funny sometimes. I try not to be jealous....because we haved talked about it.....she is just a very personable person and will talk to anyone....flirt, whatever. She likes to do it....its something i am learning to accept. It kills me sometimes, but I know there is nothing that will come of it. I dont flirt, I dont even know how . BUT, I am trying to change that. There was one time that a women was flirting with me HEAVY at a bar...and i flirted back....my wife was there too, and I did it just to see her reaction, given that I am on the otherside all the time. Needless to say....she admited it made her a little jealous...which is good for us....keep her on her gaurd....chicks dig me too girl...hahahahah
imjustagirl Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 This happens when we're out as of lately....he's been letting his hair grow out because he doesn't want to look like an army soldier anymore. He's got the most soft, spiral curls a woman would KILL for. Women all the time, "OH MY I LOVE YOUR HAIR" as they proceed to run their fingers through it before he even has time to blink. This happened the Sunday night at Subway of all places (ON A SUNDAY, THE DAY OF REST!)....this very skanky (okay, she was prettier than I) came up, ran her fingers through his hair and kept telling him how soft/silky and curly his hair was and went on and on about how she liked it. He looked at her and said, "yeah, my GIRLFRIEND think's the same" (mind you, I'm standing right there...I move closer and lock arms with him...and I'm not fond of the growing out of the hair because of s*** like THIS) and she goes, "oh, HER, puulease." So now that shes' starting to make a scene, we move on and try to ignore her and order our sandwiches and I said something that made him chuckle and those cute dimples showed their evil little eyes.... She then walks up to us AGAIN and says, "cute dimples...and I'm not talkin about the ones on your face sweetie...here's my number, you can definetly do better." He had to do everything to hold me back and to avoid us being banned from Subway forever. I started to get even more angry when I realized, HE KEPT THE NUMBER....until I saw him give it to a pimply kid that was sitting next to us...then I realized, yeah, he does love me (but I still can't get him to cut his hair). That's my rant of the day.....
imjustagirl Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 I would reserve ONLY for my BF or one of my little people.. not even someone I was trying to hit on.. is this just me? Merin....I'm with you on this one, babe
savethedrama4allama Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by imjustagirl He looked at her and said, "yeah, my GIRLFRIEND think's the same" (mind you, I'm standing right there...I move closer and lock arms with him...and I'm not fond of the growing out of the hair because of s*** like THIS) and she goes, "oh, HER, puulease." So now that shes' starting to make a scene, we move on and try to ignore her and order our sandwiches and I said something that made him chuckle and those cute dimples showed their evil little eyes.... She then walks up to us AGAIN and says, "cute dimples...and I'm not talkin about the ones on your face sweetie...here's my number, you can definetly do better." He had to do everything to hold me back and to avoid us being banned from Subway forever. :eek:MG! I woulda opened up a can of whopass on that skank! Props for keeping it civil, I don't know how you did it.
Merin Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by imjustagirl Merin....I'm with you on this one, babe I woulda whipped this other girls ass too Girl! What a trick/ho/skank she was! Come to think of it.. I kind of want to whip your BF's ass too right now for not telling this dumb beeootch to pound sand! Babe.. IT IS Babe isn't it?! Damn ****ers!
imjustagirl Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 I think it's only because I was dumbfounded....this is the first time that someone's actually went THIS far.....normally they're touching his hair or commenting on it....but wow.....yeah, she's lucky she didn't die.
Merin Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by imjustagirl I think it's only because I was dumbfounded....this is the first time that someone's actually went THIS far.....normally they're touching his hair or commenting on it....but wow.....yeah, she's lucky she didn't die. Yes, she really is lucky.. and hopefully she counts her blessings.. on second thought, she obvioulsy has zero class or good sense.. so I'm pretty certain someone has probably beat the hell outta her since then.. so yay for that!
imjustagirl Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Perhaps I should stalk Subway so I can get my post-revenge and whoop up on her in the parking lot....I probably wouldn't even have to go to subway, just find the nearest "dark alley/street corner" I kind of want to whip your BF's ass too right now for not telling this dumb beeootch to pound sand I'm kinda angry at him too, but he's turned a new leaf (I think he's actually grown up) since we've gotten back together after our couple month breakup. Originally, he would have just stood there and soaked up every last bit of "ooh your so sexy" and then gradually stepped away from me to give that "i'm single look" then later on, he would look at me and wonder why I wouldn't say weird crap like that to perfect strangers. Now he stands there and goes....."MY GIRLFRIEND says" or I love this one, "I really dont' think my wife would appreciate that" (I get this one more and more so now that I have the promise ring....we wont' go into why it's a promise ring instead of an engagement ring...~tries not to growl~)
alphamale Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by tiki I'm not really even bitching. It made me feel good that someone else noticed him and couldn't have him no way, no shape, no how. Gotta love it. she could have slippped him her # while you were in the bathroom
savethedrama4allama Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by imjustagirl Perhaps I should stalk Subway so I can get my post-revenge and whoop up on her in the parking lot....I probably wouldn't even have to go to subway, just find the nearest "dark alley/street corner" I think its hilarious that the skank was so retarded as to approach a man with his girlfriend in SUBWAY.
Author tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale she could have slippped him her # while you were in the bathroom Oh I made DAMN sure I never left his side. My eyeballs were a floatin! Justa---OMG THAT'S HORRIBLE!!!! I thought *I* had it bad. this very skanky (okay, she was prettier than I) OMG this made me laff.
savethedrama4allama Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Oh I made DAMN sure I never left his side. My eyeballs were a floatin! Justa---OMG THAT'S HORRIBLE!!!! I thought *I* had it bad. OMG this made me laff. Made me laugh too, but I sincerely doubt she was prettier than you if she has to approach dudes so forwardly at the local sub shoppe...
Author tiki Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 Did you know that in some cultures, it's actually against their religion for another to touch their head? Because it's a very 'sexual' and 'sensual' type of touch. With that being said, if someone were to lay their hands on my husband's hair/head/whateva, I'd snap some kneecaps. BOOYA! Touch his arm, touch his hand, touch his shoulder, but lay off his head! And I don't care how many curly Q's he's got.
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