brokendreamz Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Hey you guys - Haven't been here for a couple of years I guess. Just wanted to give a shout out to Love Shack and all those going through what seems like the end of days! I won't bore you with the whys and wherefores of what bought me to Love Shack, but I guess we all share one thing in common if we're on this site. For me, finding Love Shack was a turning point. In particular reading others stories made me realise I was not alone - the following words are from another member from about three years ago. It REALLY helped me - I hope it does the same for you: Twelve months on from the breakup...a day of infamy in my life...that’s for sure. I guess after 6 years together she got bored and tired of the fighting. She left for a man 13 years her senior. It has taken me a year...but...i forgive her. All I ever wanted was for her to come back...she didn't...I saw her recently and she hugged me and kissed me and told me she loved me...then she said goodbye...we don't speak or face book or anything like that. It takes a lot of time and sadness and effort to come to such a point...Basically my point is...and it does make me sad...that when they leave, they don't come back...when its over its over...you have to just try and work through it...I know they are special, and you love them...but you have got to...as the Beatles say...let it be...for me: friends and reading and drinking and drums and play station and new job and family and dog got me through...but i cannot recommend enough the power of running...join a gym, get on the treadmill, and see how good you feel after...then go for Jacuzzi and sauna and steam room...and if u can try yoga...with regards to your ex...NC is your friend...it is maybe the most powerful weapon in your arsenal...at first the inertia is immense, then slowly you start moving...you start getting your own life back...slowly at first but you are moving...given a little time you are moving at a nice pace...you realise you are in control...use NC...definitely try and have sex with people but don’t obsess...try and keep optimistic and allow nature and fate to guide you...try not to worry...a piece of you will always love or favour your ex, its natural...in the end though, you will survive and get through this...i promise....x I'm now three years out, living with my new Fiance and she's pregnant with ur first child. All I can say is hold on in there - it does get easier. Peace X 8
Jiivy Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 I'm now three years out, living with my new Fiance and she's pregnant with ur first child. All I can say is hold on in there - it does get easier. Peace X I love that you came back to show how you've moved forward! Congratulations on getting engaged - but with MY first child?! I hope that's a typo... 1
ayala Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Hahaha I caught that typo as well and couldn't stop laughing when you commented on it! But it's great to hear from members how much LS helped them. It really makes me feel like there's a lot of people with problems but there will also always be someone to give them a hand in their time of need. It's true. No one is ever really alone. There are people everywhere, waiting. 1
RDawg Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Awesome. Well done man. Strength and happiness to you. We will all get there. Eventually.
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