emotionsmessmeup Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 I hate t mobile... i can just dial a toll free number and enter the phone number and i get minutes information and the time of last call without entering any kind of passwords.. and i know everytime my ex talks to this girl..who he says is just a buddy.. he talks to her everyday at lunch... In the 5 years my ex hardly ever spoke to me during lunch coz he always said he was busy he calls her everyday..yesterday he even spoke to her for 60 mins. he hardly ever even called me..i was the one who used to call i hard to take..i wanna call him and call him names... he promised when he broke up with me..he wont be close with this girl he promised.. everything is a lie..everyone is a liar..
Pocky Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 He's your ex for a reason. Why are you worrying over someone you're not even involved with anymore?
greenhorn Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 I must admit that i am very good at giving suggestions and very poor in implementing them myself and i just now completed my 100th post on LS (congrats to me for this......) 'EMMU'(acryonym for you) when you have broken up with someone what's the use of updating the latest about him.After he broke up with you whom he meets whom he talks whom he dates should be none of your concern ..the more you think of it the more you would pain yourself. Why did you ask him not to meet that girl after your break up.The matter should end with you ending your relationships.Bury the relationship and dont carry the ghost of it... .....
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 then why the hell did he came back and say we may get back together and that i am not looking for other girls.. what am i...? he can just do whatever he feels like coz i love him with all over heart.. he can take advantage of my feeelings.. and say we have borken off now and coem back and say oh we are on a break..i might wanna get back and i have stopped looking for girls....i dont wanna date anyone..i dont feel like... and all the freaking ****
Merin Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 EMMU.. I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time right now.. IF it makes you feel any better I hate the ****ers at Tmobile too.. my last bill was whack Seriously sista.. the WORST thing you can do here is to keep checking up on him.. STOP doing it, you're only going to cause yourself more hurt than you need or want. Yeah he might have told you he wouldn't be close with this girl when he broke up with you.. but for real, at this point what he does or doesn't do cannot be your issue, problem, concern or worry any longer.. You need to get this guy out of your mind here.. and checking on his Tmobile isn't going to help you do that. It doesn't matter IF this other girl is just his friend or whatever.. the only thing that matters is YOU moving on and feeling better.. and that means not keeping up with him.
Merin Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup then why the hell did he came back and say we may get back together and that i am not looking for other girls.. what am i...? he can just do whatever he feels like coz i love him with all over heart.. he can take advantage of my feeelings.. and say we have borken off now and coem back and say oh we are on a break..i might wanna get back and i have stopped looking for girls....i dont wanna date anyone..i dont feel like... and all the freaking **** He CAN'T do ANYTHING that YOU DON'T ALLOW.
greenhorn Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Stop being foolish..are you a toy for him to play as and when he desires. Why you want to be at his mercy that whenver he wants he breaks-up with you and whenever he wants he comes back to you.Keep your control with you ...and end this game once and forever. Realise your dignity and self-esteem.
savethedrama4allama Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Hi there, I understand where you're coming from- I really do. By now, you have established him as a ****ER, correct? Believe it. Embrace it. Live it. He's a piece of doodoo and doesn't deserve your time. You have to let him go. Why allow him to keep surprising you with what a lying a**h*** he is? DIdn't you already know this? Don't let him hurt you anymore!
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 I dont know... he thought he didtn lie to me when he was close.. i dont know how he changed so much.. i dont know if he is an assole... just because he doesnt love me, does he become an assole... i dont know.. i know i have to move on. i know that but how geez he wont let me go
savethedrama4allama Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 When I've had enough, I mean really enough, I make sure he can't get a hold of me. He has to let go if he can't get a hold of you. You can block emails, IMs, phone calls, have someone else answer your doorbell....
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 i wish 1 of u was here right now.. i just want to cry on someones shoulder.. i just wanna cry out loud
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 HOW COME ONLY 1 person on loveshack sends me a PM?????????
greenhorn Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup HOW COME ONLY 1 person on loveshack sends me a PM????????? Cause I am only "ONE" Yes thats what i suggested you in PM cry out loud if you wish but dont go back to him or contact him..crying would make you feel better but contacting him not.....
greenhorn Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 One piece of wisdom (LS has made me wise ) Dont invest in sinking ship, it would eventually sink and you would lose all that which you could have salvaged had you acted a little proactively.. You would have seen or heard numerous examples where many firms have abandoned some of their projects when they find that they are not going to get the desired results even if they would have invested more than half of estimated money and this wisdom makes someone great and others to be miserable loser.. Dont hang on false hope....... just because he doesnt love me, does he become an assole Just because he doesnt love you, your interest should end there itself doesnt matter he becomes a**h*** or President of US ..why do you care for someone who doesnt loves you ..if you still need to care go and join Missionaries of Charity,atleast someone would say 'thanks' to you there. Stop contact with him and dont let him contact you either....
Pocky Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by greenhorn ..why do you care for someone who doesnt loves you ..if you still need to care go and join Missionaries of Charity,atleast someone would say 'thanks' to you there.
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 okz...thanks greenhorn..... thanks.. its been 24 hours since NC...i'll keep everyone updated.
greenhorn Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup okz...thanks greenhorn..... thanks.. its been 24 hours since NC...i'll keep everyone updated. Yeah sure...and if you feel bad come to LS ..we all are here to share your pain and happiness but please dont break NC and start the vicious cycle again.. cheers....thumbs up...(must have been long time since u drank Thums up isn't it..)
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 actually i drank just last week from the indian store.. i love thumbs up..especially after u add aa little bit of salt to it.
greenhorn Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup actually i drank just last week from the indian store.. i love thumbs up..especially after u add aa little bit of salt to it. Yep thats masala cold drink in our language..i miss it too...so drink Thums up and drown your sorrows... cheers up EMMU ....see ya tomm..
greenhorn Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup are u from bombay? Nope i am not from Mumbai ?? Why???
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 9, 2005 Author Posted February 9, 2005 coz thats wht we call it in mumbai... Update... he texted me last night at 12:01 saying that Aiswarya rai was on david letterman show. (she is a famous indian celebrity). I replied saying I know watching it
VirginiaBob Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 He/She is only a friend means = I've been bumping nasties with him/her for last month of our relationship and decided I liked it, so buh-bye.
greenhorn Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup coz thats wht we call it in mumbai... Update... he texted me last night at 12:01 saying that Aiswarya rai was on david letterman show. (she is a famous indian celebrity). I replied saying I know watching it What the hell are you doing ?? Ask yourself do you want his friendship or his love.. love is definitely ruled out so do u seek frndship with him...i read in LS yesterday someone said."if you want to be frnds dont date and after dating you can never be frnds.." if you both have broken off then why the hell you are continuing to be in his contact..why did you need to reply to his text message ..why do you entertain his messages....dont be someone's toy...be an individual not a plaything..there are many better ppl in this world with whom you can be friends with and they would give you peace of mind and not sleepless nights like the present guy.... hmm. it's called masala cold drink at all the places in our country and i know A'rya Rai..its only 4 months that i left my country...he he. keep updating..... bye..
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