vanellope Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 NC with MM for weeks. I still miss him although I know he choose to stay with her not me. He still try to contact me, saying he don't feel sorry because he feel he treat me good. He don't understand why I just gave up. He say he will accept I marry other and he wish I can find a nice man as I wish. He just wish he and me can continuous the affair, he will not jealous about the man I would have in future, and he promise he will always treat me well. what is this? He will have a personal trip abroad next month, and he wish I can go with him.
WrinkledForehead Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Unless you are the type of person who can honestly and freely engage in polyamorous R's, stay away. His words are pure selfishness. It is highly unlikely that you'd be open to meeting new men if you resume your A and out your heart in his hands again. Ignore it, move on. His intentions are to make himself feel better and to have what he wants at his disposal. Did he even mention all the pain the last fallout caused? Did he ask you how you were healing? Did he even stop for one second to reflect on the pain the relationship you had caused you and his wife? 1
movingon45 Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 I think it's friends with benefits, no strings attached, no commitment on call kind of thing. 2
DKT3 Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 NC with MM for weeks. I still miss him although I know he choose to stay with her not me. He still try to contact me, saying he don't feel sorry because he feel he treat me good. He don't understand why I just gave up. He say he will accept I marry other and he wish I can find a nice man as I wish. He just wish he and me can continuous the affair, he will not jealous about the man I would have in future, and he promise he will always treat me well. what is this? He will have a personal trip abroad next month, and he wish I can go with him. Yeah, most are like this. Marriage on one hand, sex with you and who knows how many how many others on the side.
MatchStick Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Speaking as an xOW, and happily so, he so sounds like he likes his cake and can eat it to. HE is MARRIED, meaning you will never be #1. In time, with a long term affair with this man, this nice treatment that he promises will not feel so nice. For starters, you will not go on this personal trip next month, and you never will or will do so in secret. His words and promises are superficial, and stringing you along. Find a man who wants to treat you well, share his full checkbook, 24/7, and is his first consideration in all things. Forget this guy!! 1
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