Author GrandeH Posted May 18, 2014 Author Posted May 18, 2014 I know it looks strange from what I have typed alone. I would have to write a huge wall of text for it all to actually make sense to you guys. Bare in mind that in the 6 months of our marriage, we have only had 13 days of actual physical contact. The rest was all LDR. Now we are actually happy together like we used to be before we got married, in fact we are way better. The bond we shared when we consumated our marriage was really something else. Now she desires me in a genuine way. She seeks affection from me like before and she respects me. We don't bicker anymore and we actually have conversations. I listen to her better and she listens to me better. MC was with people directly involved with us, our family members who had no bias. I will write everything down during my day to day activities and copy and paste it here when finished if you really would like the peace of mind that I now have in my heart regarding this marriage. We told each other that we were going in this session with the intent to divorce, but after MC we realised that it was really down to small issues. That amazing sexual chemistry I spoke of is indeed there, or reignited if you will. Grazie everyone for your input honestly you helped me so very much with your responses! I was going to divorce/annul the marriage, but now I am having my needs met above and beyond what I hoped for. I actually enjoy spending time with her now, we laugh together and we don't fight anymore. God is so good! I got more than the 180 I was hoping for.
Author GrandeH Posted May 18, 2014 Author Posted May 18, 2014 I am a LITTLE skeptical, not in a negative way but just in a realistic way. None of this made sense to me before, but everything makes sense to me now. Marriage is truly one of the best things in life when its good, and conversely its one of the worst things when its bad. I will definitely keep you guys updated, now I can conclude this chapter in my marriage by changing the title from "Horrible Marriage" to "Grande Marriage" Grazie!
stillafool Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 I know it looks strange from what I have typed alone. I would have to write a huge wall of text for it all to actually make sense to you guys. Bare in mind that in the 6 months of our marriage, we have only had 13 days of actual physical contact. The rest was all LDR. Now we are actually happy together like we used to be before we got married, in fact we are way better. The bond we shared when we consumated our marriage was really something else. Now she desires me in a genuine way. She seeks affection from me like before and she respects me. We don't bicker anymore and we actually have conversations. I listen to her better and she listens to me better. MC was with people directly involved with us, our family members who had no bias. I will write everything down during my day to day activities and copy and paste it here when finished if you really would like the peace of mind that I now have in my heart regarding this marriage. We told each other that we were going in this session with the intent to divorce, but after MC we realised that it was really down to small issues. That amazing sexual chemistry I spoke of is indeed there, or reignited if you will. Grazie everyone for your input honestly you helped me so very much with your responses! I was going to divorce/annul the marriage, but now I am having my needs met above and beyond what I hoped for. I actually enjoy spending time with her now, we laugh together and we don't fight anymore. God is so good! I got more than the 180 I was hoping for. Wow! All of this in just 1 day. There's no need to come back and cut and paste everything that went on with your session. If you are happy we are happy for you. I hope it's still going this great a month from now. Good luck to you both and we wish you the best. Goodbye.
Author GrandeH Posted May 18, 2014 Author Posted May 18, 2014 Wow! All of this in just 1 day. There's no need to come back and cut and paste everything that went on with your session. If you are happy we are happy for you. I hope it's still going this great a month from now. Good luck to you both and we wish you the best. Goodbye. I fasted and prayed like never before to have just an eighth of what we actually have now. For those who don't believe in God, it seems like something thats almost impossible, but I knew despite all your comments (which were not ignored), despite everyone saying the marriage was dead (which it really was because we were both not going to R), I knew that God could salvage it. I expected for it to be salvaged and then we progressively get to where we are now. But God himself amazed me by exceeding my expectations and hopes because our old marriage is dead and he gave us a new much much better one. You guys were not wrong at all about the old marriage.
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