HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Ive just seen a picture of the ex and his new GF of 7 months we broke up 10 months ago from a LTR. I was devastated at the time but he just seemed to move on with no second thoughts. Walked out on myself and my child and just cut us out. I know you cant tell a lot from a picture but I have never seen him looking so sad and overweight. His GF is throwing herself all over him and he just looks as miserable as sin. I dont know really why Ive posted this but its made me feel a bit weird, I didnt feel anything toward him looking at it, Ive come too far now but its just made me feel a bit strange. All these months Ive been picking myself up and thinking how he is all loved up and moving on so easily with all his new healthy clubs and finding someone else so soon and from the pic he looks anything but happy and healthy he's never looked worse x
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 12, 2014 Author Posted May 12, 2014 It was on a mutual friends FB but because it didnt have him tagged (Ive blocked him) it came up x Its not upset me in anyway I feel fine but its made me feel a bit like wow I would not have expecting to see him looking so awful x
David87 Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 It was on a mutual friends FB but because it didnt have him tagged (Ive blocked him) it came up x Its not upset me in anyway I feel fine but its made me feel a bit like wow I would not have expecting to see him looking so awful x Well this mean you were a better girlfriend than the one he has now.
Haydn Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 I think you stay should off FB for a while. Maybe delete the mutual friend, explain why. Seeing pics of our recent ex`s can always hurt. I think that`s true. It was on a mutual friends FB but because it didnt have him tagged (Ive blocked him) it came up x Its not upset me in anyway I feel fine but its made me feel a bit like wow I would not have expecting to see him looking so awful x
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 12, 2014 Author Posted May 12, 2014 It didnt hurt though I looked at him and the only thing I felt was a bit sorry for him he just looked so sad but he made his own bed. Its just left me feeling a little shocked.. I thought he was happy as larry but doesnt look that way! x 1
Haydn Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 You care, I get it. I know that feeling. What do you want to do about it? It didnt hurt though I looked at him and the only thing I felt was a bit sorry for him he just looked so sad but he made his own bed. Its just left me feeling a little shocked.. I thought he was happy as larry but doesnt look that way! x
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 12, 2014 Author Posted May 12, 2014 Honestly after the last few months of pain I feel like smirking as awful as that sounds.. I cant help but think he may have a few regrets x 1
David87 Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Honestly after the last few months of pain I feel like smirking as awful as that sounds.. I cant help but think he may have a few regrets x Of course he has regrets, it's normal....but it doesn't matter now.
ahthepain Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Really glad to hear that you didn't feel pain when you saw him. I'm hoping to get that stage as soon as possible.
melell Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Wow, I guess a picture really can tell 1000 words... It is ok op, it is normal for you to feel a bit weird, it won't spark anything in you soon enough
Summerrose2013 Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Honestly after the last few months of pain I feel like smirking as awful as that sounds.. I cant help but think he may have a few regrets x Good for you, you smirk away. Can't believe any man would ever leave his kid and cut them out of his life. It's often the dumpee that ends up happier in life as they've been set free and take the time to look at their own life, think about what went wrong and how to make things better next time. I look at pics of my ex and feel nothing now - no, wait, I sometimes feel repulsed and can't believe we ever did yukky stuff together. And after I told him I agreed with all his reasons for breaking up, and added a few more of my own, only THEN did he say he missed me and I never replied to that. I was past missing him by then. They say the dumpee does the missing immediately but it hits the dumper later on. By which time, any savy dumpee, doesn't care and certainly shouldn't be comforting them!
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