Heroeric Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 I was in a relationship with my ex for roughly a year and a half, had our ups and downs. She left me twice, once for another man after her and I had an arguement about how she was always talking to all these guys all the time through the day and it made me uncomfortable after so long, but she came back 3 days later. stayed together for another 6 months or so.she left me 7 months ago after we got into another argument, and with minor contact the first 3 weeks we went NC. 2 weeks ago she emailed me saying she wanted to hear from me and that she was going through stuff. I replied and we briefly chatted. Another week later she emailed me again saying how she has been thinking about me alot, and that she misses me. We started talking that day about life the past 7 months, seemed to have gone well, and she went to bed. Had very broken communication the following week, and tonight she texted me saying how she cried when the pastor at church talked about the fatherless children out there. I comment that she is a strong women and in due time she will find a man who will never do that to her future children. She said she is done till collage. And im just wondering why even hit me up in the first place if she isnt even interested in dating...
Trep Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 because she wants an ego boost. And you keep giving it to her.
Lifegoezon Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 She didn't break no contact. You did. The whole point is that you neither instigate contact nor respond to it.
Zahara Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 You're the emotional tampon. The guy that will be there to listen to her problems when she needs someone to stroke her. I mean, she left you for another man and kept talking to all these other men, disrespecting you and here you are, still taking it like a champ. She knows you'll always be available to her when she needs an ego or attention boost.
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