Lovebite Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Hey all! This guy I want to date is kinda strange. He talks to my dad about me, and I don't get that. My dad will tell me things here and there, like 'Jake said he's gonna come over and take you out' I was like 'huh?' Then another time where Jake told my dad that we have been dating for 4 months, and my dad seemed upset about it....when I told my dad it's a lie, my dad then said 'Oh yeah I knew it was a joke' when my dad seemed a little angry about it. Then my dad stopped using him for work cause that is how Jake was met through my dad cause my dad has his own business and hired him. Well he stopped using Jake cause I guess me and Jake got too close... Then my dad will say things like 'Jake wants to go to a baseball game with all of us' 'Jake wants to take you out' Then my mom told me that Jake said to my dad that I was hot, and that he likes me. I think there is a lot more being said about me, but my dad just doesn't say it. He'll say little things here and there. I noticed though he kept a distance, but he still talks to Jake so I don't get it. I just don't know why Jake goes to my dad and says that i'm hot and that he wants to take me out, but he doesn't ask me himself? We text and talk just not often, he more talks to my dad, What do you think about this? Would like to hear what you people think, cause I find it odd. thanks!
Pasttense Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 What culture is he from? There are certain cultures where approval of the parents is expected--but I don't think in any of those he would use the word "hot" in talking to the parents.
LustAppeal Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Well this is a new one to me... I've heard of boyfriends/girlfriends getting too close to the parents of.... My girlfriend goes for coffee with my sis and plays cards with my mom, but we've been dating for 7 months now. This would defiantly be a red flag to me, I'd make sure he's not using your dad to get to you. 1
Pasttense Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Thinking this over are you absolutely sure your parents aren't lying to you about this--they may think it is funny.
Author Lovebite Posted May 12, 2014 Author Posted May 12, 2014 What culture is he from? There are certain cultures where approval of the parents is expected--but I don't think in any of those he would use the word "hot" in talking to the parents. lol, he's American. Just your average white boy, hahaah.
Author Lovebite Posted May 12, 2014 Author Posted May 12, 2014 Thinking this over are you absolutely sure your parents aren't lying to you about this--they may think it is funny. They're not lying. I know that. He does get a little flirty with me, and he even told me himself that he liked me, it's just a lot of the things he says he doesn't say to me. My dad's other worker told me that Jake got really jealous when my dad said I was going on a date with another guy. I just find it odd that Jake talks about me to my dad more....
Author Lovebite Posted May 12, 2014 Author Posted May 12, 2014 Well this is a new one to me... I've heard of boyfriends/girlfriends getting too close to the parents of.... My girlfriend goes for coffee with my sis and plays cards with my mom, but we've been dating for 7 months now. This would defiantly be a red flag to me, I'd make sure he's not using your dad to get to you. Yeah that's what I thought too!!! LOL! It usually when you start dating your significant other gets close to the parents, but he worked for my dad, he doesn't anymore, but he still talks to him about me weirdly....but what do you mean by he could be using my dad to get to me? Thanks.
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