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hi everyone,

 

I just realized the guy I was seeing blocked me. I've texted him but it doesn't show "delivered" to my last texts, so he's blocked me2 hours ago.

 

I feel heartbroken. I don't really know what to do, it's obvious he doesn't want anymore contact with me, but I'd like to ask him why at least...I feel so sad right now.

 

Yesterday we had an argument, it wasn't really an argument, I think I forced him to meet and he was feeling sick, trowing and everything. I think I acted inconsiderate asking to set a date with me while he was feeling sick, so I texted this morning and said sorry, that I forced him. He replied I was picking on him, and then he blocked because all my texts after that don't show "delivered" just the one asking sorry before he texted me back.

 

should I try to call him? I feel really bad right now, heartbroken and miserable.

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Go take a nice long bath, watch a good movie on Netflix, cook some dinner and get some sleep. Let him contact you, you already said you were sorry. If you do that all the time, I don't blame him.

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he blocked me, that means he is not going to contact me!

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As above just back away and let him come to you. He would not have just blocked you unless he felt things had become too much. I blocked a girl earlier via my Iphone because she was clearly going to become a major problem for me and the texts became very concerning.

 

Texting him in this state will only make it worse, go do your thing and wait. If he does not come back it is time to move on.

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I just feel very heartbroken. I also feel stupid, me texting him to later realize he wasn't getting any of those texts. He should have said "it's over" instead of just blocking me. Why would he did something like that?

 

I need an explanation, though I know he doesn't want to talk to me anymore :(

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I just feel very heartbroken. I also feel stupid, me texting him to later realize he wasn't getting any of those texts. He should have said "it's over" instead of just blocking me. Why would he did something like that?

 

I need an explanation, though I know he doesn't want to talk to me anymore :(

 

When I block someone, it means I want nothing to do with them for whatever my reasons are and most times the person getting blocked already knows why they're being shut out. You have an inkling as to why he is shutting you out, he said you were picking on him so it's possible that he's annoyed, frustrated, done with whatever it is that you were doing to make him feel that way. You have your answer.

 

He most likely didn't say it is over and just blocked you because he didn't want to deal with getting into it with you.

 

Don't contact him anymore. If you do, you'll only reinforce his reasons with blocking you.

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I just feel very heartbroken. I also feel stupid, me texting him to later realize he wasn't getting any of those texts. He should have said "it's over" instead of just blocking me. Why would he did something like that?

 

I need an explanation, though I know he doesn't want to talk to me anymore :(

 

You don't *NEED* any explanation. You got it. He doesn't want to talk to you. You were inconsiderate, uncaring, controlling and demanding... all while he was sick. What else is he to infer about you based on what went on? That you will become MORE inconsiderate, uncaring, controlling and demanding as time goes on.

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Thank you, Zahara. I wont contact him again. I can't contact him either, even if I wanted to do so...

 

I was wondering what would happen if I try to call him...if he's blocked me from texting, can I still call him to see if he's blocked me from calling him? Is it the same thing?

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Thank you, Zahara. I wont contact him again. I can't contact him either, even if I wanted to do so...

 

I was wondering what would happen if I try to call him...if he's blocked me from texting, can I still call him to see if he's blocked me from calling him? Is it the same thing?

 

What does it matter? Would you call him if blocking him on text doesn't block on calls?

 

As pushy and demanding as you were then, you will come off the same way by pushing and demanding contact from him. And judging from the way you behaved, I understand why he would do this.

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thank you. This is the first time ever I get blocked by someone I care for. I did some things I shouldn't have done, and I hope I can learn from my mistakes in the future.

I won't contact him, it's clear he doesn't want to do anything with me anymore.

I hope I'll feel better soon, now I just want to sleep and forget.

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Lol last time my ex broke up with me and gave me silent treatment.. I wish he had blocked me haha but he did not and I bombarded him with messages and messages and somehow he never wanted to block me!! Dammit!! It turned me into a crazy girl lol

 

My advice is that just stop. You can't do anything now. It's hard but try to let it go. It feels ****ty at first but after a while u won't feel anything! Trust me! Be strong!

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So..it seems he's unblocked me?? now all my messages show "delivered" even the one that says "Omg, you blocked me, really?"

He hasn't replied anything, of course, what should he reply to all my crazy texts?

 

He must think I'm totally crazy, and I guess he's gonna block me again forever now :p

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I was gonna say, just because it doesn't say "delivered" doesn't mean he blocked you!! It could just mean that he's out of range of the network or has turned his phone off. You really leaped to conclusions with that.

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Lesson learned, for sure. I was invested, sadly. If I weren't that invested, I would't have cared whether he's blocked me or not. This guy made me feel butterflies, the chemistry was there, everything was perfect.

Oh well, sh## happens. Not making any more moves now, I'll stay quietly in the shadows forever.

 

Damn iphone :lmao: Next time I'll count until 1000 before texting.

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I know! that's what passion does, right? Because we are invested, we become crazy animals. We are jealous, irrational, crazy...

 

We are just texting right now, I'm trying to keep it low key but unfortunately I've drunk some glasses of wine (following someone's advice here) and I'm not fully aware of what I'm texting. this guy is just unbeliavable or his patience is infinite. He's still replying to my texts, poor saint omg.

 

I'm just not forcing him into anything, but I'd love him to meet me today, though I know it's not possible. Crazy me :p

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We are just texting right now, I'm trying to keep it low key but unfortunately I've drunk some glasses of wine (following someone's advice here) and I'm not fully aware of what I'm texting.

 

 

 

Oh,

 

 

 

 

Facepalm.

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I know! that's what passion does, right? Because we are invested, we become crazy animals. We are jealous, irrational, crazy...

 

We are just texting right now, I'm trying to keep it low key but unfortunately I've drunk some glasses of wine (following someone's advice here) and I'm not fully aware of what I'm texting. this guy is just unbeliavable or his patience is infinite. He's still replying to my texts, poor saint omg.

 

I'm just not forcing him into anything, but I'd love him to meet me today, though I know it's not possible. Crazy me :p

 

You seem perfectly capable of typing coherently and thoughtfully on here... don't allow yourself to use alcohol as an excuse for whatever you say to him.

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I actually checked how it appears when you block someone and I'm sorry to say even if you block it will show deliver but its just that the other person can't get it. And when they unblock, sometimes the message does get sent again. And I think it was just the signal or he turned off imessage or something but you were so paranoid..

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Lol last time my ex broke up with me and gave me silent treatment.. I wish he had blocked me haha but he did not and I bombarded him with messages and messages and somehow he never wanted to block me!! Dammit!! It turned me into a crazy girl lol

 

My advice is that just stop. You can't do anything now. It's hard but try to let it go. It feels ****ty at first but after a while u won't feel anything! Trust me! Be strong!

 

Pmsl!!! You sound like me!!!!

 

Op - just because he has blocked you doesn't mean he won't contact you again. If people piss me off by constantly texting me I have blocked them before, or during a stupid argument to let it calm down.

 

He may not text you again though and that seems fairly likely. I agree with past 1. Go do you and stop worrying about what he's doing.

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Girlfriend. Get. A. Grip.

 

Don't use alcohol to play dumb. You don't know what you're texting? Come on, now. How is it that you can write well on here but suddenly can't when texting him? You're looking for a way to excuse potentially over-the-top texts.

 

I think you need to back off him a bit. You are clearly very, very invested in this guy....So much so that any thought of a lack of contact sends you into panic mode. That is not healthy. I don't mean to be harsh, but you need to get some perspective here. How long have you been dating?

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I would block you too if you treated me that way. You were selfish and controlling. Lay off and see what happens.

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We've been seeing each other for some months now, on and off, very casual.

 

We texted some more at night but he kept it casual, not wanting to talk about feelings or anything like that. I respected that since I acted a little crazy the last days.

 

He owns me nothing and he promised nothing to me, so he can do whatever he wants. He's single and he's free, right?

 

I'm not contacting him no more because yesterday I told him I was passionate about him, so he already knows my feelings, if he wants to connect, he knows how to.

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I say keep it up! It's been proven time & time again...

 

Men LOVE CRAZY!

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hi everyone,

 

I just realized the guy I was seeing blocked me. I've texted him but it doesn't show "delivered" to my last texts, so he's blocked me2 hours ago.

 

I feel heartbroken. I don't really know what to do, it's obvious he doesn't want anymore contact with me, but I'd like to ask him why at least...I feel so sad right now.

 

Yesterday we had an argument, it wasn't really an argument, I think I forced him to meet and he was feeling sick, trowing and everything. I think I acted inconsiderate asking to set a date with me while he was feeling sick, so I texted this morning and said sorry, that I forced him. He replied I was picking on him, and then he blocked because all my texts after that don't show "delivered" just the one asking sorry before he texted me back.

 

should I try to call him? I feel really bad right now, heartbroken and miserable.

He could have said no, I'm sick. You may have been pushy about asking him to meet up with you when he was sick, but you didn't "make" or "force" him to say yes.

 

Look if this guy you're seeing has blocked you over something this stupid, then he isn't boyfriend material. He's a jerk-off!

 

There is a possibility he didn't get the texts, so don't assume yet that he's blocked you.

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I say keep it up! It's been proven time & time again...

 

Men LOVE CRAZY!

 

 

I'm cracking up with your comment :)

 

I think men love nice girls though...

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