kane30us Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 My ex has a kid. I want to send her a Happy Mother's day text. My emotional side thinks this is a bad idea. We've been broken up for 6 months and I feel good and have been dating again. But, there is still a side of me that really misses her and still has strong feelings for her and when I do think of her I feel sad that she's not with me. We text briefly last March and I felt bad afterwards because she seemed over me. I guess I'm just looking for someone to tell me not to break NC and to give me a swift kick in the ass! 1
TylerDurdenn Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 She didn't seem over you. She IS over you. You must kill those remaining feelings, and I know it's bloody hard because I'm in the same boat 9 months on.. Good luck. 1
Strength in Healing Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 Don't break NC. My ex of 4 years, a fiance, had a son. He called me dad. I didn't break NC today, and neither should you. 4
7yearsbroken Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 She didn't seem over you. She IS over you. You must kill those remaining feelings, and I know it's bloody hard because I'm in the same boat 9 months on.. Good luck. I'm around 11 months and I'm only on day 5 of NC. Stick with it, you are no alone here checking social media kept me from healing. Don't waste your time. This person is over you, try to figure out how to move on, I don't know how to yet. Again, we can do this don't contact! 1
this2shallpass Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 No..dont text her. Im on the NC now too, its SOO hard.. but its for the best.
Mr.Pine Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I guess I'm just looking for someone to tell me not to break NC and to give me a swift kick in the ass! You're better than that. Ignore the beeyatch and forget the kid. He ain't yours.
KaliLove Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 My ex has a kid. I want to send her a Happy Mother's day text. My emotional side thinks this is a bad idea. We've been broken up for 6 months and I feel good and have been dating again. But, there is still a side of me that really misses her and still has strong feelings for her and when I do think of her I feel sad that she's not with me. We text briefly last March and I felt bad afterwards because she seemed over me. I guess I'm just looking for someone to tell me not to break NC and to give me a swift kick in the ass! I love your honesty!!! I hope you didn't do it..? 1
Author kane30us Posted May 21, 2014 Author Posted May 21, 2014 Nope I didn't and I feel good about it! 2
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