jimmy81 Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 I was seeing a girl for around 2 months, everything was going really well, she was very keen and then all of a sudden became distant and said she was confused and didn't know why. I got a bit angry at this at the time but I know she left cos I got too involved. I then left it for around a week and contacted her about returning her stuff and I wanted to try and get us back on civil terms as I was angry at the end. She was very cold back and I tried to banter but no response then she cut me off. Won't be contacting again but looking for some advice, was I wrong to contact about the stuff?
nerdlingZA Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 No u were not wrong, get your stuff and cut her off too.
SCJACK Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 sounds like my ex.. it was 2 months as well.. and I broke NC yesterday -.- back to square 1... sorta, doesn't hurt as much as it did before but thinking about her alot more now... UGH
KaliLove Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Relationships are supposed to progress..you weren't doing anything wrong. It sounds like she just wasn't that into you. Luckily you only wasted 2 months. Moving right along!
oracle Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 2 months isn't really a relationship. Its still dating and getting to know someone. So i don't think any strict NC rules should be applied.
David87 Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 You did nothing wrong ... it wasn't meant to be. Start NC with this one. 1
Author jimmy81 Posted May 13, 2014 Author Posted May 13, 2014 Think I may have insulted her when trying to banter, my initial texts were lighthearted though. Wish I hadn't contacted now
saltyfishhead666 Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I was seeing a girl for around 2 months, everything was going really well, she was very keen and then all of a sudden became distant and said she was confused and didn't know why. I got a bit angry at this at the time but I know she left cos I got too involved. I then left it for around a week and contacted her about returning her stuff and I wanted to try and get us back on civil terms as I was angry at the end. She was very cold back and I tried to banter but no response then she cut me off. Won't be contacting again but looking for some advice, was I wrong to contact about the stuff? When my relationship ended my ex cut Me off clean and dry. Silence nothing no I'm dumping you no nothing. I never asked for my things back, it's just stuff. I didn't ask if he wanted his back. I simply shipped it directly too him and that was that. You weren't wrong but you were too. Keep nc this time.
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