jordanr1994 Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 So i met a girl last saturday at a party and we had a little chat for 5 to 10 minutes. She is a model and obviously very popular with the guys. I then met her at another party of wednesday with the same crowd of people and she approached me and we started talking. We were both drunk and she offered me HER number. She told me how fit i was, which threw me off a bit because she is a 9/10 easy! I told her that i think she is saying that because she is drunk. Which she immediately replied " The truth always comes out when im drunk" I then found out that she is sleeping with a guy, they arent official, but he is also really attractive and they hang out a lot. I then carried on with my night and we had a little dance and kiss at the club later. She was being very Kino, rubbing my stomach etc I then gave it a couple days and dropped her a text, she said i feel like you should see my when im sober. I took this as a hint and asked her out for a coffe sometime. She said definantly. That was 2 days ago now. I was just wondering how i should play this? When we talk im confident and cocky and try and be myself. But its always at the back of my mind how hot she is, and what she can see in me I got out of a LTR about 2.5 months ago now and that relationship sucked all my confidence out of me, i thought i could never find another girl better then my ex. So being out of the game for a while and lacking that confidence, i am unsure what to do Any advice would be much appreciated
bluenote Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 I would say it just depends what you want to do with her. You say she is hot and is currently seeing someone attractive, and she is rubbing up with you then you should already get a hint of what kind of lady she is. She may be the kind that doesn't like to eat beef everyday and variety and change is important for her. If your intent is just to play around or sleep with her and then forget her afterwards in order to boost your self confidence that you lost during your last relationship, then perhaps go for it. If you are thinking of a long loving and caring relationship with her, maybe even grow old together, then you should think hard and realistically. You could be lucky and she may fall in love with you, but otherwise you could be setting yourself up for a big disappointment and even worse loss of more self confidence. People may sometimes do and say things when they are drunk or inebriated that they really don't mean, when you are drunk your senses are somewhat tangled, the most unattractive person could seem just fine. For her to say that she would like to meet up when she is sober, really just confirms the ladder
Assasda Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 How do you know that she's better than your ex? You dont even know her yet. Seems like you have a lot of insecurities, but this girl seems into you. Be your Cocky self, tease her, and it should be all good
halfcrazed_i Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 I say that go ahead and meet her... and just be yourself. Don't overthink it. It'll help that you don't expect much from your first meeting because that way, you'd be a lot more relaxed and that the good parts of your personality would shine through. You'll do well Don't worry! Let us know how it went!
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