emi Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 So my ex dumped me. It was like 10months ago, I went throught hell and now im kinda ok with my life. Then my ex msged me out of the blue. He said sorry to me and ask for my forgiveness. Then I said '' You dumped me, its over, i tried my best'' He : '' no i didnt dump you, we havent break up, we never have closure'' etc kind of thing then i said '' go re-read ur msg u send me then'' ( yeah he dumped me thru text'' Then he asked whether we can be friend or not. I havent answer. Damn, i read alot of posts about when you dont care anymore and they return but i never actually believe but now its kinda happen? lol.. And well he made me remember alot of memories which i thought have fade and i dont know if hes genuine or not. Thoughts ?
Always Pondering Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 (edited) So my ex dumped me. It was like 10months ago, I went throught hell and now im kinda ok with my life. Then my ex msged me out of the blue. He said sorry to me and ask for my forgiveness. Then I said '' You dumped me, its over, i tried my best'' He : '' no i didnt dump you, we havent break up, we never have closure'' etc kind of thing then i said '' go re-read ur msg u send me then'' ( yeah he dumped me thru text'' Then he asked whether we can be friend or not. I havent answer. Damn, i read alot of posts about when you dont care anymore and they return but i never actually believe but now its kinda happen? lol.. And well he made me remember alot of memories which i thought have fade and i dont know if hes genuine or not. Thoughts ? I find it quite funny that he said this certain part. I mean what does that even mean? For the past 10 months you two are still in a relationship in no-where land? I think if my ex told me that I'd be laughing to no end. It does tend to turn out like that though, when you do not care of least expect it to happen, your ex contacts you for whatever reason. Edited May 11, 2014 by Always Pondering Typos 1
TylerDurdenn Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 My thoughts are that his girlfriend/****buddy that he had for the last 10 months has just cut it off with him. It means nothing. 3
No Limit Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 Breadcrumb/testing the waters. Ignore and no contact.
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 Shouldn't even have responded!! He's pulling at the leash and you barked!!
Author emi Posted May 12, 2014 Author Posted May 12, 2014 I find it quite funny that he said this certain part. I mean what does that even mean? For the past 10 months you two are still in a relationship in no-where land? I think if my ex told me that I'd be laughing to no end. It does tend to turn out like that though, when you do not care of least expect it to happen, your ex contacts you for whatever reason. Yea he said that he didnt dump me, and i need to dump him now ( if i really want) so we can have our closure. I dont know what he trying to say, we have been NC since the day he dumped me until he wished me happy bday and when he ask me for forgiveness
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