OverlyLost Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 I am going through a really rough break up. My boyfriend(ex) is a complete *******. All he cares about at this moment is sex with anyone who offers. I know the person that he really is and I know all this whoring he does is just for comfort. I love him so much and I just want a better life for him. He puts himself through a lot of stress and I feel it is my job to make it better for him even if it means belittling myself for the comfort of him. I feel like nothing I have ever done was good enough for him through our relationship I constantly felt I needed to prove myself to him all the while he'd cheat with loose women. why do I love so hard?! Why do I put his needs before mine? Why can't I let him go?! I am feeling like I need some serious help because I feel so dumb and worthless for letting someone bring me to this state of mind knowing I am a good girl. Every guy I know basically tells me that they wish they had a girl like me. Why can't this ******* see that?! Is this abuse?! Whenever I feel OK enough to move on he comes right back contacting me and making me think of him. We have gone through this a few times now I just want to be free why does he have this hold on me?! by*Lost*•*Just now
Kitty278 Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 I am going through a really rough break up. My boyfriend(ex) is a complete *******. All he cares about at this moment is sex with anyone who offers. I know the person that he really is and I know all this whoring he does is just for comfort. I love him so much and I just want a better life for him. He puts himself through a lot of stress and I feel it is my job to make it better for him even if it means belittling myself for the comfort of him. I feel like nothing I have ever done was good enough for him through our relationship I constantly felt I needed to prove myself to him all the while he'd cheat with loose women. why do I love so hard?! Why do I put his needs before mine? Why can't I let him go?! I am feeling like I need some serious help because I feel so dumb and worthless for letting someone bring me to this state of mind knowing I am a good girl. Every guy I know basically tells me that they wish they had a girl like me. Why can't this ******* see that?! Is this abuse?! Whenever I feel OK enough to move on he comes right back contacting me and making me think of him. We have gone through this a few times now I just want to be free why does he have this hold on me?! by*Lost*•*Just now Dear, do not put yourself down like this - it is not your fault that he is cheating on you. You do not need to prove anything to him - if anything - prove something to yourself. You are a kind person and obviously care for this guy - but is he worth it? Not the way he is treating you! You deserve much better than this. I think if I was you, I would try to make a plan to get out of this, take your time with it. Try to not give in when he contacts you, you re stronger than that.
namastemeow Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 We're in almost the same case. I am feeling so stupid too but the other part of me wants him to be better and would take him back in a second. This feeling sucks.
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