fairyl Posted May 10, 2014 Posted May 10, 2014 Hi all, I am new to this but would really appreciate some advice on my situation. 6 weeks ago i meet this guy we'll call him Bill. He adds me on Facebook and chats to me every night. After chatting for a couple of nights we go on our first date. Everything seems to be going really well. He texts me every night, asks me out on dates, told his parents about me, brought me to a party in his pub to meet his family and some nd his friends and he told me they all thought i was lovely. We arrange a date one Saturday we kiss cuddle hold hands and sleep together(not our first time together) i asked him to spend the night but he couldn't so i asked was there ever going to be a time wen he could stay and did he actually want to stay and he yeah of course and gave me a kiss and had to leave. Fast forward to Tuesday and he is still texting every night but not as chatty as usual so i ask is everything okay and tells me his last two ex gf's have cheated on him and he is only out of his last relationship 3 months and is finding it really difficult to get himself to try another relationship, he has been trying to make himself like me because i am really nice and i am his type and i would be perfect for him but he is just not feeling it, he has lost all interest in relationships. That he was really sorry. I just replied that i was disappointed but i understood and agreed to be friends. He said he would text me but i haven't heard from him since, this is almost two weeks ago. Is there anything i can do to salvage this? Did he ever actually like me? I am so sorry this is such a long post. Thank you if you managed to read and understand it all.
Gaeta Posted May 10, 2014 Posted May 10, 2014 Hi all, I am new to this but would really appreciate some advice on my situation. 6 weeks ago i meet this guy we'll call him Bill. He adds me on Facebook and chats to me every night. After chatting for a couple of nights we go on our first date. Everything seems to be going really well. He texts me every night, asks me out on dates, told his parents about me, brought me to a party in his pub to meet his family and some nd his friends and he told me they all thought i was lovely. We arrange a date one Saturday we kiss cuddle hold hands and sleep together(not our first time together) i asked him to spend the night but he couldn't so i asked was there ever going to be a time wen he could stay and did he actually want to stay and he yeah of course and gave me a kiss and had to leave. Fast forward to Tuesday and he is still texting every night but not as chatty as usual so i ask is everything okay and tells me his last two ex gf's have cheated on him and he is only out of his last relationship 3 months and is finding it really difficult to get himself to try another relationship, he has been trying to make himself like me because i am really nice and i am his type and i would be perfect for him but he is just not feeling it, he has lost all interest in relationships. That he was really sorry. I just replied that i was disappointed but i understood and agreed to be friends. He said he would text me but i haven't heard from him since, this is almost two weeks ago. Is there anything i can do to salvage this? Did he ever actually like me? I am so sorry this is such a long post. Thank you if you managed to read and understand it all. I am sorry dear, these things happen quite often. Of course he liked you but sometimes people think they are ready to date again and when they meet someone with potential they realize that no, they are not ready at all. It has nothing to do with you, or liking you. Him offering to be friends was just a way of saying 'no remorse', we can talk once in a while and be cool, he did not mean to have an actual 'friendship'. No there is nothing you can do. The best is to forget about him and to move on.
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