OverlyLost Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 (edited) Me and my boyfriend of a year were best friends. We were perfect for each other. All he tells me is how wonderful I am and how perfect I am for him. We have broken up before due to him not being about to be faithful. We were apart for a month before we got back together. He told me that he knows no one will love him the way I do and he was miserable without me. Things were going good until iI noticed a change in his behavior. He was back to his old ways. I confronted him about it and we almost broke up but he told me he didn't want to and we went on about everything like normal. Still upset I was distant. The next fees days he texts me this long paragraph about how he's depresses and needs to sort out his life. I told him I was here for him and that we could remain friends eventhough I felt like dying. He begged for me not to hate him and I took it very hard. We seen each other and had lunch and he was all over me! Told me he was sad and single life was boring and he misses me. He was hugging and holding my hand and acting like the person I knew. Then he asked if I wanted to be his gf again. I brushed him off and asked later what he meant by it and he said he was just making sure. I found out that he was sleeping with other girls and I flipped. I told him I hated him and want him out my life forgood no ffriendship. I'm in no contact and already he has blow off my decision to end things for good and walk away. I finally told him that he needs to stop contacting me and he said OK. I don't think he thinks I'm serious about this being the end because he says we have broken up before and will be together again. I'mjust drained iI gave this man my all I don't want to do it aanymore. I want him to know he messed up and lost something great Edited May 9, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Zahara Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 (edited) I don't think he thinks I'm serious about this being the end because he says we have broken up before and will be together again. I'mjust drained iI gave this man my all I don't want to do it aanymore. I want him to know he messed up and lost something great If you want him to know that you are serious, you ignore his contact. He may break it but you instill NC no matter what he does. And he knows things will be back on again because when you took him back after he cheated on you, you only taught him that cheating is acceptable to you and that you will tolerate it so it's not surprising that he thinks you will do the same again. Block him. Remove him from all forms of communication. And don't ever go back to him. And guys like him don't care about whether they messed up or lost a great thing. He had a couple of opportunities to realize that with you and hasn't so let that go. Edited May 9, 2014 by Zahara
Author OverlyLost Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 If you want him to know that you are serious, you ignore his contact. He may break it but you instill NC no matter what he does. And he knows things will be back on again because when you took him back after he cheated on you, you only taught him that cheating is acceptable to you and that you will tolerate it so it's not surprising that he thinks you will do the same again. Block him. Remove him from all forms of communication. And don't ever go back to him. And guys like him don't care about whether they messed up or lost a great thing. He had a couple of opportunities to realize that with you and hasn't so let that go. I haven't talked to him since I told him to leave me alone. I do miss him but I'm very angryand iI am fed up. Letting go is all I can do
Zahara Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 I haven't talked to him since I told him to leave me alone. I do miss him but I'm very angryand iI am fed up. Letting go is all I can do Good. Even if he contacts you, ignore it. He's going to come sniffing around again. This is what they do.
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