Author learning_slowly Posted May 11, 2014 Author Posted May 11, 2014 (edited) Everyone is unique, the act of cheating is the same. You're arguing for arguing's sake. I give up on this. Am I? I have cheated in the past, but not with my most recent ex. You stated cheaters "mindset." Do you think people cheat for the same reason? It has already been shown alot of people cheat as a way to call attention to the problems in their relationship and often the relationship becomes better after the drama. I'm not saying that its a good idea to cheat, but I'm sure there are alot of reasons, including loneliness in long distance relationships. But if you live by a set of rules which do not let you see beyond the obvious, then you are destined to follow a narrow path. Edited May 11, 2014 by learning_slowly
this2shallpass Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Loved this thread...and the first post. I REALLY needed to read that, thank you.
jt27 Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 I am still trying to move on and I certainly miss HER more than the relationship. Yes, I miss the relationship but I miss the things that made her different. If it was a relationship I missed, I would just jump right into another one to replace the void. Instead, I am grieving the loss of her. Everyone is different and every relationship is different. I am actually of the belief that only time will heal you and it ranges for everyone. I am 6 weeks on and I am hitting a new low but trying to realize I need time. Make an effort and realize you need time and eventually you heal...I hope. 1
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