Jam23 Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 It's been about 7 months since I last saw my ex. For those 7 months, she has dated my best friend (at least he was my best friend) I recently learned that they are moving in together. Her and I were engaged and before all this happened we had been together for 2 years, however moving in with one another was something we both agreed to wait for. I've been pretty good for a while now, I've dated, grown a lot and even brushed this new information off with relative ease. But every now and then it creeps up on me, it eats at me. What makes him better then me? Why is it that I tried so hard for so long to get so little and he gets everything so easily from her? People tell me oh they are rushing in. She's scared, and manipulating him. That nothing good will come from a relationship built on a foundation of lies. I'm not sure what I need to feel better. But if you have any words of encouragement or advice to give, I'd love to hear it.
RideZiLightning Posted May 10, 2014 Posted May 10, 2014 Don't try and understand it. You don't know how he treats her or even manipulates her. Some people are extremely impressionable, and once they get someone else's idea in their head, they make bad choices. They may even know it's the wrong decision, but they will do it anyway because it makes them feel free Just continue to grow and become a better person. Be happy that you are having a productive and positive life. Probably better than hers
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