NYC-BigKat Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 I just don't understand it u know. So we met Monday at the mall with my friend. Lets call her Nikki okay? My friend wanted to talk to her friend & me Nikki & they seemed so cool & stuff. We exchanged our numbers & I started to text her & stuff & then she got all annoyed with me just for making a little conversation . I don't even know why. So I asked her if I did something to upset her & she said yea 'cause I ask a lot of questions. I'm trying to get to know her what else do I do? So um...she tells me she's a good girl & hates the liars & cheaters but it seems like she's lying to me 'cause I had my friend do some texting to her phone pretending to be someone she didn't know & she was all into him by talking nonstop & stuff & he was acting like a bad boy by saying stuff like 'yo what's good baby girl. Is your game tight tonight? Are u balling down on Jamaica Av Saturday?' crap like that & she seemed to really really like him & that makes me feel bad 'cause my friend is acting like a thug & she is now saying she wants to meet! So when I went to text her back to talk as my self she just got annoyed & called me a loser just for being nice. Now she wont reply to me at all . I mean why is she doing this? She said she's a good girl but I am a good guy & she doesn't want it & I don't know why? I feel confused & tricked in a way . Seems like so many dishonest girls.
Keenly Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 Dude, it just sounds like she was more into your friend, and she also doesn't seem to think your getting to know each other is as organic as she needs it to be. Sometimes when you try too hard it feels forced. Wait a few days and then invite her and her friend out with you and your friend for something fun.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 8, 2014 Author Posted May 8, 2014 Dude, it just sounds like she was more into your friend, and she also doesn't seem to think your getting to know each other is as organic as she needs it to be. Sometimes when you try too hard it feels forced. Wait a few days and then invite her and her friend out with you and your friend for something fun. Sounds pretty good I guess. I ask my uncle about this & he says girls are all like that. Saying one thing but responding to something else. When I asked him to give me some examples he just shrugged. I wish I had it easy like he does u know.
mammasita Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 It seems pretty obvious that she's not interested. Sounds like she gave you her number just for the hell of it, typical "juvenile" game. Delete her number and carry on. 1
saltyfishhead666 Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 Sounds pretty good I guess. I ask my uncle about this & he says girls are all like that. Saying one thing but responding to something else. When I asked him to give me some examples he just shrugged. I wish I had it easy like he does u know. If you had it "easy" it wouldn't be worth it. Your uncle is also wrong, not ALL women act like that.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 If you had it "easy" it wouldn't be worth it. Your uncle is also wrong, not ALL women act like that. Uh...he might be wrong to u but he never struggles in no way like I do so he knows something when he says girls respond to stuff they say they wont to but they do. I used to hang out with him a lot & I seen him & they respond to bad boy stuff more than good guy stuff or if they do respond to good guy stuff they get bored really really quick & stuff. I even seen girls act like they don't like my uncle at first then start sleeping with him later after they said he's a jerk & bum .
mammasita Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 Like attracts like. If you want an ignorant broad, then act like a bad boy like your uncle.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 Like attracts like. If you want an ignorant broad, then act like a bad boy like your uncle. I don't know how .
mammasita Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 I don't know how . So you're saying you want an ignorant broad?
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 So you're saying you want an ignorant broad? No but so many girls don't respond to respectful guys. Maybe 'cause its NY or something? I'm just tired of it is all u know.
MidwestUSA Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 No but so many girls don't respond to respectful guys. Maybe 'cause its NY or something? I'm just tired of it is all u know. Don't change. I know you're tired of it all. Hang in there, Kat. You're just waiting for the right girl!
Tayla Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 You seem to somewhat know of what it takes to be a stand up kinda guy, yet I see failure the moment you "played" this girl thru your Thug friend. Sometimes its important to simply walk away with some pride then to remain there and create more chaos. That chaos is what brought you here....
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 Op, Have you considered learning the art of talking without talking? No. I mean it. Just don't talk. Ever. I know what u mean 'cause um my uncle doesn't say much to girls but he somehow still gets them so interested. My friend says this only works for a few guys but not that many so I don't know what else to do now.
bubbaganoosh Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 No but so many girls don't respond to respectful guys. Maybe 'cause its NY or something? I'm just tired of it is all u know. In order for a woman to respond to a respectful guy, she also has to have some respect. Seems like the ones your going after are the wrong kinds of women. First of all her attitude stinks along with her manners and why you would want something like that on your arm puzzles me. Start looking in another direction for women with a lot more quality. 1
GemmaUK Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 I just don't understand it u know. So we met Monday at the mall with my friend. Lets call her Nikki okay? My friend wanted to talk to her friend & me Nikki & they seemed so cool & stuff. We exchanged our numbers & I started to text her & stuff & then she got all annoyed with me just for making a little conversation . I don't even know why. So I asked her if I did something to upset her & she said yea 'cause I ask a lot of questions. I'm trying to get to know her what else do I do? So um...she tells me she's a good girl & hates the liars & cheaters but it seems like she's lying to me 'cause I had my friend do some texting to her phone pretending to be someone she didn't know & she was all into him by talking nonstop & stuff & he was acting like a bad boy by saying stuff like 'yo what's good baby girl. Is your game tight tonight? Are u balling down on Jamaica Av Saturday?' crap like that & she seemed to really really like him & that makes me feel bad 'cause my friend is acting like a thug & she is now saying she wants to meet! So when I went to text her back to talk as my self she just got annoyed & called me a loser just for being nice. Now she wont reply to me at all . I mean why is she doing this? She said she's a good girl but I am a good guy & she doesn't want it & I don't know why? I feel confused & tricked in a way . Seems like so many dishonest girls. So quick break down: You get her number and text her with a lot of questions. She gets annoyed and tells you sheisannoyed because you are firing off questions. Then you get your friend to start texting her from a number she doesn't know because you think she is lying. (actually, getting texts which are a whole stack of questions when you give someone your number is an annoying thing to be on the receiving end of.) So anyway, your friend continues being the fake man for you. Then you say this 'So when I went to text her back to talk as my self she just got annoyed' I can see you being dishonest in getting your friend to fake text her. You then seem to switch to it being you who has done the fake texts She has only been honest with you. It does sound like she has sussed your fake text thing out though and is playing along with it.
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