forbidden_love Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 My sort of ex lies to himself, it is painfully obvious to me. We are LC after six years We bump into each other and occasionally I find him in the same place over and over again. It seems when I really want to see him, I can find him there. Different places but around the same area at the same time, even though he does not work there. He then denies it. He then says oh well I was there for so and so reason. (At the same time) yeah right. He wants me to think he does not look for me but I know he does. And I admit I look for him. I long for him and I get in the car and go there and see him after about two minutes Mostly I just have to go where we usually see each other and WHAM, there he is. Last time he was painfully obviously parked in a massive carpark with his big car right where we usually meet. So if, as he says, sometimes 'why am I following him? Why is he going to the same places at the same time? the man is a nutjob. So in denial.
d0nnivain Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 If he's an EX what difference does it make? If you want to avoid him stay away from those places, especially when you see him. 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 I agree with d0nnivain, he's your EX for a reason. Regardless, if you want to know his reasons, why not just ask him and get it over with. If you miss him and you THINK he feels the same, ask him if he wants to get back together again...because from I'm sitting...you're both acting a bit childish with the whole cat and mouse thing. Good luck.
Author forbidden_love Posted May 8, 2014 Author Posted May 8, 2014 Sorry, no he is not an ex, we are low contact, but love each other sadly we cannot let go
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