Mary Oak Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 I dated a girl for about a year. We broke up in November. There were a number of reasons. She and I did not communicate the same way. I like to talk things out and she clams up. After she does that, she "gets over it". Well, until things have come to some sort of resolution, I don't get over it. THen it boils up and we have an argument that usually resulted in both of us crying. Another reason we did not work is I got involved with her while I still had residual feelings for my ex. My fault. I know. It started with her being there for me, but moved to a relationship. I still have feelings for my ex, unfortunately, though nothing like I used to. So, thing is we have never stopped communicating as actually just stopped sleeping together in January/Feburary? Since then we have seen each other a couple of times and each time we end up cuddling and making out. It just natural and good. But, this last time, was a bit much and I didn't want to go any further as I know we both still have feelings for each other but it is just not going to work between us. We still talk daily and she often asks questions about my feelings or our relationship. I guess my question is, do i just cut all physical aspects out of our lives and go completely friends? I don't know. I am on online dating sites, but have not found anyone to compare to her. I don't know if this is becoming a FWB thing, or something more. Take note, she brought up with me because I was still not over my ex. I get that. I accept that. But, I guess why does she still act like we are more than friends? Kinda confusing..
lostnlovely Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 It probably almost impossible to stop being physical with someone and just be friends , especially when emotions were involved at one point. She probably acts like its more than what it is , because you guys are acting that way. If the relationship is done , then let it be done. Sex can cause so many different emotions , its crazy .. so if you really want to know if its over or if the relationship can be salvaged... stop having sex with each other and start talking.
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